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Don't go out and spend money at bars and clubs ..

cola

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I never post this much but just a few suggestions

Get a job in the industry.
I don't care if you don't need the money.

-if you don't need the money its even better that money can be 100% saved.

-It opens you up to not only sleeping with customers, but staff.
The women who work in the clubs are usually the hottest.. But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

-You have more social value than any guy there.. Only exception is if your the trash guy.. Don't be the trash guy.
But bartender, bouncer, dj or manager is clutch.

-The connections are priceless.. Bouncing has made me money outside of clubs.. I got a job as security at a soccer tournament by Bouncing at the club.. Made 700$ tax free cash to play on my phone for 10 hours because the manager of the soccer league thought I was cool..
Met so many rich dudes with priceless advice..

So don't be another drunk phaggot in the club with a button up shirt and Sperry loafers on, yelling for no damn reason to get girls..
Get paid to get laid..
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I never post this much but just a few suggestions

Get a job in the industry.
I don't care if you don't need the money.

-if you don't need the money its even better that money can be 100% saved.

-It opens you up to not only sleeping with customers, but staff.
The women who work in the clubs are usually the hottest.. But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

-You have more social value than any guy there.. Only exception is if your the trash guy.. Don't be the trash guy.
But bartender, bouncer, dj or manager is clutch.

-The connections are priceless.. Bouncing has made me money outside of clubs.. I got a job as security at a soccer tournament by Bouncing at the club.. Made 700$ tax free cash to play on my phone for 10 hours because the manager of the soccer league thought I was cool..
Met so many rich dudes with priceless advice..

So don't be another drunk phaggot in the club with a button up shirt and Sperry loafers on, yelling for no damn reason to get girls..
Get paid to get laid..
As a long time DJ in several house music clubs I can tell you this is 100% true...I used to do ZERO work and have my pick of 4-5 hot women to bang any night I worked there...and THEY did ALL the work. I just had to take them home or go home with them at the end of the night.
 

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Cola, you're still a young guy so I'll cut you some slack, but choosing to be and soliciting others to be bouncers is the fastest way to ensconce a life of mediocrity.

You like the club scene? Great. Partner into it with the owner. Promote the hell out of it based on a percentage/leveraged buy-in and demonstrate your value. In my 20s I was already structuring private funding for Limelight, a huge club in NYC back then.

You're a smart guy but have small paradigms. The paradigms you exercise today you will likely carry for the rest of your life.

Choose to be great, not average.
 

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I never post this much but just a few suggestions

Get a job in the industry.
I don't care if you don't need the money.

-if you don't need the money its even better that money can be 100% saved.

-It opens you up to not only sleeping with customers, but staff.
The women who work in the clubs are usually the hottest.. But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

-You have more social value than any guy there.. Only exception is if your the trash guy.. Don't be the trash guy.
But bartender, bouncer, dj or manager is clutch.

-The connections are priceless.. Bouncing has made me money outside of clubs.. I got a job as security at a soccer tournament by Bouncing at the club.. Made 700$ tax free cash to play on my phone for 10 hours because the manager of the soccer league thought I was cool..
Met so many rich dudes with priceless advice..

So don't be another drunk phaggot in the club with a button up shirt and Sperry loafers on, yelling for no damn reason to get girls..
Get paid to get laid..
I agree with what you're saying and it's a great way to network, but this part:

But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

Sometimes it's not all that enjoyable. When you're working in a packed bar/club on a Friday or Saturday night as a bartender, there's a lot of running around grabbing bills and constantly pouring some drunk tards more shots.

You aren't "enjoying nightlife" the same way that people paying and getting drunk with their friends are enjoying nightlife, you are working a job.

I'm just being nitpicky but yea.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Cola, you're still a young guy so I'll cut you some slack, but choosing to be and soliciting others to be bouncers is the fastest way to ensconce a life of mediocrity.

You like the club scene? Great. Partner into it with the owner. Promote the hell out of it based on a percentage/leveraged buy-in and demonstrate your value. In my 20s I was already structuring private funding for Limelight, a huge club in NYC back then.

You're a smart guy but have small paradigms. The paradigms you exercise today you will likely carry for the rest of your life.

Choose to be great, not average.
I used to go to Limelight. Still have a t-shirt from there. What a great club that was in an old cathedral. Decadent place.

And this is good advice too from guru. Cola, you gotta get a piece of the action. That's where the real money is.
 

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I agree with what you're saying and it's a great way to network, but this part:

But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

Sometimes it's not all that enjoyable. When you're working in a packed bar/club on a Friday or Saturday night as a bartender, there's a lot of running around grabbing bills and constantly pouring some drunk tards more shots.

You aren't "enjoying nightlife" the same way that people paying and getting drunk with their friends are enjoying nightlife, you are working a job.

I'm just being nitpicky but yea.
The DJ is always enjoying it :p
 

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I used to go to Limelight. Still have a t-shirt from there. What a great club that was in an old cathedral. Decadent place.

And this is good advice too from guru. Cola, you gotta get a piece of the action. That's where the real money is.
When I was 26 yos, I was going to buy Limelight through a 506 exemption for 2 mil from the owner. The owner had a problem with his liquor license and along with the pending lawsuits, my investors bailed, and the deal fell apart.

My only point to Cola is that paradigms begin young. You don't magically change your paradigms in your 30s or 40s.

To the younger guys: the way you think today will pave tomorrow's roads. Fortune doesn't favor the lucky; it follows the mental paradigms you invest into. Think (and act) big.
 

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When I was 26 yos, I was going to buy Limelight through a 506 exemption for 2 mil from the owner. The owner had a problem with his liquor license and along with the pending lawsuits, my investors bailed, and the deal fell apart.

My only point to Cola is that paradigms begin young. You don't magically change your paradigms in your 30s or 40s.

To the younger guys: the way you think today will pave tomorrow's roads. Fortune doesn't favor the lucky; it follows the mental paradigms you invest into. Think (and act) big.
The vast majority of clubs are fronts for the owners to run drugs through in some fashion or another. Which is why they come and go so frequently.
 

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The vast majority of clubs are fronts for the owners to run drugs through in some fashion or another. Which is why they come and go so frequently.
Watch the show Power. That's literally the plot. It's like a black gangster version of breaking bad, 50 cent is in it lol
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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The vast majority of clubs are fronts for the owners to run drugs through in some fashion or another. Which is why they come and go so frequently.
I'm was going to bring the club public. Could you imagine a NYC nightclub trading on the ticker?

Also, a profitable cash business, alleviating a 50% income tax burden, is an excellent road to financial wealth. Part of building a financial empire is not only in earnings and investing but knowing how to mitigate your tax liabilities. The restaurant and club busineses are tough businesses but, if successful, incredible tax havens.
 

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Watch the show Power. That's literally the plot. It's like a black gangster version of breaking bad, 50 cent is in it lol
Don't need to I worked in enough of them and became very close with most of the owners and privy to a lot of information most people don't get and a lot of private VIP parties where a lot of "business" is conducted...
 

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I'm was going to bring the club public. Could you imagine a NYC nightclub trading on the ticker?

Also, a profitable cash business, alleviating a 50% income tax burden, is an excellent road to financial wealth. Part of building a financial empire is not only in earnings and investing but knowing how to mitigate your tax liabilities. The restaurant and club busineses are tough businesses but, if successful, incredible tax havens.
The nightclub business is a gritty business if you are running it on the up & up. It's so cash intensive that there are 1000 ways for people to steal from you. Obviously this tendency must be mitigated.

And even if you are running it legit you still have to be aware of nefarious elements that are frequenting the venue & doing business there. That's a tightrope walk trust me.

You must have good relationships with everybody from the staff to customers to dealers to law enforcement. It gets in your blood though I'll say that. Even at my age I still enjoy a great club scene from time to time. Still consider getting back in that business if the right opportunity came along (I've seen some good ones over the years but haven't pulled the trigger for various reasons.)

Taking a NYC club public would be heady stuff for sure. Epic.
 

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I never post this much but just a few suggestions

Get a job in the industry.
I don't care if you don't need the money.

-if you don't need the money its even better that money can be 100% saved.

-It opens you up to not only sleeping with customers, but staff.
The women who work in the clubs are usually the hottest.. But they are smart enough to get paid and enjoy nightlife instead of paying to enjoy nightlife.

-You have more social value than any guy there.. Only exception is if your the trash guy.. Don't be the trash guy.
But bartender, bouncer, dj or manager is clutch.

-The connections are priceless.. Bouncing has made me money outside of clubs.. I got a job as security at a soccer tournament by Bouncing at the club.. Made 700$ tax free cash to play on my phone for 10 hours because the manager of the soccer league thought I was cool..
Met so many rich dudes with priceless advice..

So don't be another drunk phaggot in the club with a button up shirt and Sperry loafers on, yelling for no damn reason to get girls..
Get paid to get laid..

Brah i have been wanting to do this for a looooong time.. my brother was a club security for a long time..

He made lots of friends and banged so many hot woman..

So here is what is stopping me?

I seriously workout, i have big arms, chest shoulders etc.. I can handle myself physically..

But I am 5ft8 is it game over ? Lol

How can i work doors with dudes who are 5ft10 6ft etc etc

I can get a security licence for literally £500
 

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The women who work in the clubs are usually the hottest.
True thing. The bartending industry seems to have a disproportionate high number of hot women, compared to most others. Almost always, one of the barmaids is the hottest girl in the room.
 

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Don't need to I worked in enough of them and became very close with most of the owners and privy to a lot of information most people don't get and a lot of private VIP parties where a lot of "business" is conducted...
I meant watch it because it's a great show.
 

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Brah i have been wanting to do this for a looooong time.. my brother was a club security for a long time..

He made lots of friends and banged so many hot woman..

So here is what is stopping me?

I seriously workout, i have big arms, chest shoulders etc.. I can handle myself physically..

But I am 5ft8 is it game over ? Lol

How can i work doors with dudes who are 5ft10 6ft etc etc

I can get a security licence for literally £500
I know a bouncer who is about 5'8 but he is jacked to high heaven .. He probably is 230 with 8% body fat..
 

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Great advice if you're 22.
THE KBJing just never stops does it?

I got a buddy who does the lights at one of the most popular clubs in the state

he's in his 30's he's an average looking guy. about 5'7 but he bangs hot chicks (7s-9s) all the time with minimal effort

Girls come up to him he get's their numbers and than he sets up the lay that night or the next day it's that easy.

Only reason why I never did this, is cause I probably would get bored and drink on the job lol and at this stage in my life I can't be bothered going to clubs even for money or some skank coochie

He does it part time, why not just for the chicks it's easy money and it gives him experience as the light guy. Some of the top guy's in his industry easily make 6 figures. He already is the light guy for the top club in the state he's well on his way
 
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Cola, you're still a young guy so I'll cut you some slack, but choosing to be and soliciting others to be bouncers is the fastest way to ensconce a life of mediocrity.

You like the club scene? Great. Partner into it with the owner. Promote the hell out of it based on a percentage/leveraged buy-in and demonstrate your value. In my 20s I was already structuring private funding for Limelight, a huge club in NYC back then.

You're a smart guy but have small paradigms. The paradigms you exercise today you will likely carry for the rest of your life.

Choose to be great, not average.
How many 20 year olds have the capital to fund a club? at least if you gonna tell this guru give him the game lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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