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Was discussing this with a friend last night. If a woman is not making an effort to reach out to you and spend time with you, you should basically ignore her.

No social media likes.
Don't follow her stories on snap or insta.
If you run across her in person let her come to you but be fun to be around if she does.

Are there any other examples of this?
 

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Just treat them as you would treat a man...its really that simple.

No rewards unless earned and no extra tolerance toward stupid behaviours.

Would you help a random guy who didnt speak to from months to move his furniture? would you keep a conversation with a man who happens to be boring, focused on himself and uninterested about you?

No we wouldnt, too bad most men understand this only after their mid 30s.
 

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Why do you need examples exactly, just to back up the idea?

You're on the right track. These things are pertinent for men who are unplugging, developing, etc. It helps them break poor habits.

Once you get past a certain point, it all becomes behavioral and any "rules" can be tossed out the window. If you've built your life up to where you're always meeting women, you just do what you want.
 

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Just treat them as you would treat a man...its really that simple.

No rewards unless earned and no extra tolerance toward stupid behaviours.

Would you help a random guy who didnt speak to from months to move his furniture? would you keep a conversation with a man who happens to be boring, focused on himself and uninterested about you?

No we wouldnt, too bad most men understand this only after their mid 30s.
This is a great example and exactly what my buddy and I were talking about. Don't reward women for being uninterested in you. If she's not making an effort treat her like she doesn't exist.
 

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Why do you need examples exactly, just to back up the idea?

You're on the right track. These things are pertinent for men who are unplugging, developing, etc. It helps them break poor habits.

Once you get past a certain point, it all becomes behavioral and any "rules" can be tossed out the window. If you've built your life up to where you're always meeting women, you just do what you want.
It was an interesting discussion just looking for more examples and opinions.
 
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Was discussing this with a friend last night. If a woman is not making an effort to reach out to you and spend time with you, you should basically ignore her.

No social media likes.
Don't follow her stories on snap or insta.
If you run across her in person let her come to you but be fun to be around if she does.

Are there any other examples of this?
Agree 100%
 

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Was discussing this with a friend last night. If a woman is not making an effort to reach out to you and spend time with you, you should basically ignore her.

No social media likes.
Don't follow her stories on snap or insta.
If you run across her in person let her come to you but be fun to be around if she does.

Are there any other examples of this?
You shouldn't reward women if all they want to do is text you and not spend any time outside the phone
 

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When I'm doing online dating and a woman mentions some guy being a creep and sending her D pictures or whatever else guys like that online do, my response:

"Yeah I've heard that about guys. With chicks, it's all about attention. Chicks like to see how many guys they can text with and each text they get is like a crack fix. Then when you ask them to meet they disappear like a fart in the wind and move to other 'dealers'"

I have said this before, and then never heard from her again!
 
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It was an interesting discussion just looking for more examples and opinions.
Not only with attention but inside the ltr or attraction stage. Withhold sex from her as well. Balance it before you burn it out.
 

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Correct me if Im wrong, if you give a woman attention and you try to s3x up the conversation but she doges that should bring up red flags to you.
 

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Was discussing this with a friend last night. If a woman is not making an effort to reach out to you and spend time with you, you should basically ignore her.

No social media likes.
Don't follow her stories on snap or insta.
If you run across her in person let her come to you but be fun to be around if she does.

Are there any other examples of this?
I only add women on my insta who i have banged or got close to banging ...lol
 
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