"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't give out your cell to net girls

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HOLY SHYT, from now on I am not giving out my # to net girls. During recent experiments I gave out my #, and they are turning into lil stalkers. I think because I really am not tryhing to pick then up (I intentionally picked women outside m y area for testing some new ideas) theya re going crazy. One girl called 7 times yesterday.

I got an email today that I actually like though:( my thoughts in bold):

"I must admit... that was definitely one of the most interesting emails... and profiles... I've read on the POF site. You use very good "verbage". Definitely a plus! I consider myself 2 be Qualify Myselffairly intelligent and well "worded" as well. Certainly not a flake or a dumdum! Its actually irritating to receive an email of introduction from a fellow who can't even spell the simple stuff! It 4 sure makes a bad first impression!!Like she's not trying hard to make a good impression with me?
I do love 2 travel although I don't do it as much as I would like 2. I'm always up 4 something new, not the same ole thing over and over. Boring!Thank goodness I haven't been 2 a concert in a while. I did get 2 see Alanis Morrisette in Nice DHV PlantLondon. I like Nick Lachey's newest cd... some Rascal Flatt... Nickelback... a mix really... no favorite.
I'd be happy to chat some more!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't give out your number to girls you haven't been out with PERIOD.
 
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Usually I stick to emails when it comes to dealing with girls before I am in a relationship with them or even friendship. Only after hanging or seeing them one on one a couple of times do I ever share my number, and if I do it's after I get their number.
 
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So why is it so important to get their number if you don't trust them with yours? What would make them trust you enough to give you their number?
 
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Why is this a bad thing?

They ugly or something?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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