"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't give out your cell to net girls

everywomanshero

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HOLY SHYT, from now on I am not giving out my # to net girls. During recent experiments I gave out my #, and they are turning into lil stalkers. I think because I really am not tryhing to pick then up (I intentionally picked women outside m y area for testing some new ideas) theya re going crazy. One girl called 7 times yesterday.

I got an email today that I actually like though:( my thoughts in bold):

"I must admit... that was definitely one of the most interesting emails... and profiles... I've read on the POF site. You use very good "verbage". Definitely a plus! I consider myself 2 be Qualify Myselffairly intelligent and well "worded" as well. Certainly not a flake or a dumdum! Its actually irritating to receive an email of introduction from a fellow who can't even spell the simple stuff! It 4 sure makes a bad first impression!!Like she's not trying hard to make a good impression with me?
I do love 2 travel although I don't do it as much as I would like 2. I'm always up 4 something new, not the same ole thing over and over. Boring!Thank goodness I haven't been 2 a concert in a while. I did get 2 see Alanis Morrisette in Nice DHV PlantLondon. I like Nick Lachey's newest cd... some Rascal Flatt... Nickelback... a mix really... no favorite.
I'd be happy to chat some more!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Don't give out your number to girls you haven't been out with PERIOD.
 

Hitman10000

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Usually I stick to emails when it comes to dealing with girls before I am in a relationship with them or even friendship. Only after hanging or seeing them one on one a couple of times do I ever share my number, and if I do it's after I get their number.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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So why is it so important to get their number if you don't trust them with yours? What would make them trust you enough to give you their number?
 

Bvbidd

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Why is this a bad thing?

They ugly or something?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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