"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't give out your cell to net girls

everywomanshero

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HOLY SHYT, from now on I am not giving out my # to net girls. During recent experiments I gave out my #, and they are turning into lil stalkers. I think because I really am not tryhing to pick then up (I intentionally picked women outside m y area for testing some new ideas) theya re going crazy. One girl called 7 times yesterday.

I got an email today that I actually like though:( my thoughts in bold):

"I must admit... that was definitely one of the most interesting emails... and profiles... I've read on the POF site. You use very good "verbage". Definitely a plus! I consider myself 2 be Qualify Myselffairly intelligent and well "worded" as well. Certainly not a flake or a dumdum! Its actually irritating to receive an email of introduction from a fellow who can't even spell the simple stuff! It 4 sure makes a bad first impression!!Like she's not trying hard to make a good impression with me?
I do love 2 travel although I don't do it as much as I would like 2. I'm always up 4 something new, not the same ole thing over and over. Boring!Thank goodness I haven't been 2 a concert in a while. I did get 2 see Alanis Morrisette in Nice DHV PlantLondon. I like Nick Lachey's newest cd... some Rascal Flatt... Nickelback... a mix really... no favorite.
I'd be happy to chat some more!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Don't give out your number to girls you haven't been out with PERIOD.
 

Hitman10000

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Usually I stick to emails when it comes to dealing with girls before I am in a relationship with them or even friendship. Only after hanging or seeing them one on one a couple of times do I ever share my number, and if I do it's after I get their number.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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So why is it so important to get their number if you don't trust them with yours? What would make them trust you enough to give you their number?
 

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Why is this a bad thing?

They ugly or something?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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