"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dont Get Into Relationships

Daddy The Pimp

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Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.

Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women.

When you have this , youll have the perfect relationship.

Youll become more alpha , youll tell her that you can walk away from her in the minute that she screws it up and you'll not tolerate all that sh1t that girls do to chodes.

Im reading some threads here and this will be the response to all of them.

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Good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is a good post. It could answer a LOT of the questions that get posted here.

A couple of things I'll add for anyone who is already in a relationship:

-If she dumps YOU, it's over, trying to get her back will push her further away.
-If the relationship is heading south, END IT. Cut your losses.
-If she disrespects you, END IT.
-DO NOT compromise in relationships.
-Don't do anything different, keep doing what works.
-You don't owe her anything, you have no obligations to her.
-Don't get into an exclusive relationship.
-Don't make excuses for her mistakes, she has none.
-Date other women. It can ONLY do you good.

And finally, read this again:

Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women
 
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ProDJ26

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forward and to the point this should be a stickie

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
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Chode? ... is that what i think ur sayin lol
 

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Good thread. I agree you have no business getting into serious relationships until you've got yourself squared away per the above.
 
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