"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dont Get Into Relationships

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Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.

Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women.

When you have this , youll have the perfect relationship.

Youll become more alpha , youll tell her that you can walk away from her in the minute that she screws it up and you'll not tolerate all that sh1t that girls do to chodes.

Im reading some threads here and this will be the response to all of them.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is a good post. It could answer a LOT of the questions that get posted here.

A couple of things I'll add for anyone who is already in a relationship:

-If she dumps YOU, it's over, trying to get her back will push her further away.
-If the relationship is heading south, END IT. Cut your losses.
-If she disrespects you, END IT.
-DO NOT compromise in relationships.
-Don't do anything different, keep doing what works.
-You don't owe her anything, you have no obligations to her.
-Don't get into an exclusive relationship.
-Don't make excuses for her mistakes, she has none.
-Date other women. It can ONLY do you good.

And finally, read this again:

Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women
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forward and to the point this should be a stickie

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
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Chode? ... is that what i think ur sayin lol
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Good thread. I agree you have no business getting into serious relationships until you've got yourself squared away per the above.
 
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