"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dont Get Into Relationships

Daddy The Pimp

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Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.

Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women.

When you have this , youll have the perfect relationship.

Youll become more alpha , youll tell her that you can walk away from her in the minute that she screws it up and you'll not tolerate all that sh1t that girls do to chodes.

Im reading some threads here and this will be the response to all of them.

Clear ?
Good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Captain

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This is a good post. It could answer a LOT of the questions that get posted here.

A couple of things I'll add for anyone who is already in a relationship:

-If she dumps YOU, it's over, trying to get her back will push her further away.
-If the relationship is heading south, END IT. Cut your losses.
-If she disrespects you, END IT.
-DO NOT compromise in relationships.
-Don't do anything different, keep doing what works.
-You don't owe her anything, you have no obligations to her.
-Don't get into an exclusive relationship.
-Don't make excuses for her mistakes, she has none.
-Date other women. It can ONLY do you good.

And finally, read this again:

Dont get in serious relationship until you have abundance mentality.
If you dont have girls lined up waiting for you dont get a girlfriend.
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
Hit the field hard and become a master first. Get abundance on women
 
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ProDJ26

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forward and to the point this should be a stickie

:up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unprez

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Daddy The Pimp said:
If you are a chode that thinks that is lucky for having a girlfriend dont get a girlfriend.
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Chode? ... is that what i think ur sayin lol
 

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Good thread. I agree you have no business getting into serious relationships until you've got yourself squared away per the above.
 
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