"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont get frustrated at the gym

RaWBLooD

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Its already starting to pick up, and a lot of people will be in for the first 2 weeks after new years, slowding down till spring again.

So dont get frustrated when all the benches are in use, or all the machines you want to use, or all the squat racks have fat/weak people doing 65lbs bb curls in them.

Just relax and try going at times when no one is there, early morning, 2-4 pm, before closing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GropeDope

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I disagree. Get FRUSTRATED AND F*CKIN PISSED when everything is being used!

(That way you can take it all out on the weights and lift more when the c*cksuckers finally get out of your way)
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD So dont get frustrated when all the benches are in use, or all the machines you want to use, or all the squat racks have fat/weak people doing 65lbs bb curls in them.[/B]
Last night I saw some dude using a rack to do squats with a 5kg plate on each end. I blame the "Instructors".

Its the gangs of slightly built young'uns that hang over benches that get my blood boiling.
 

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I'd rather be doing a few weeks with bugger all weight on the bar, improving my form and flexibility so I can go just below parallel to the floor.

Of course, I could try and throw 180KG on the bar to do 2X20 breathing squats. But hey - I value my life.

All the best,

Ben
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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