"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dont get frustrated at the gym

RaWBLooD

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Its already starting to pick up, and a lot of people will be in for the first 2 weeks after new years, slowding down till spring again.

So dont get frustrated when all the benches are in use, or all the machines you want to use, or all the squat racks have fat/weak people doing 65lbs bb curls in them.

Just relax and try going at times when no one is there, early morning, 2-4 pm, before closing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I disagree. Get FRUSTRATED AND F*CKIN PISSED when everything is being used!

(That way you can take it all out on the weights and lift more when the c*cksuckers finally get out of your way)
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD So dont get frustrated when all the benches are in use, or all the machines you want to use, or all the squat racks have fat/weak people doing 65lbs bb curls in them.[/B]
Last night I saw some dude using a rack to do squats with a 5kg plate on each end. I blame the "Instructors".

Its the gangs of slightly built young'uns that hang over benches that get my blood boiling.
 

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I'd rather be doing a few weeks with bugger all weight on the bar, improving my form and flexibility so I can go just below parallel to the floor.

Of course, I could try and throw 180KG on the bar to do 2X20 breathing squats. But hey - I value my life.

All the best,

Ben
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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