"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't get addicted to MySpace and all the Internet dating

disciple

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Don't get addicted to Internet romances.

Meeting chicks online should be a supplement to your game like a vitamin supplement is to your diet.

You gotta get out and deal with women in real time. The internet is cool because you can learn things but nothing takes the place of doing it the old fashion way.

Turn the computer off, get out there and talk to chicks and yeah you'll take your lumps along the way but so has any guy who eventually gets laid.

You are trying to avoid making mistakes or saying or doing the wrong thing when this is exactly what you probably need.

Sounds crazy but it is true.

Back when I was younger and just starting to play basketball, I used to suck and I mean really suck.

I was horrible and I used to get my a$$ handed to me regularly. But I never gave up and no matter how many times I got beat I kept coming back and I was smart enough to start learning from my defeats and figuring out ways to play to my strengths and minimize my weaknesses.

I didn't go from scrub to stud overnight (this ain't no da@@ Disney movie)but I gradually got better and better until eventually I was beating people that used to beat me all the time.

I remember when I couldn't shoot a 3-pointer to save my life and I was told I couldn't do it.

I purposely went to a court several times a week and shot 3-pointers for hours and watched NBA stars and studied their shots and I turned myself into a good 3 point shooter.

The point of sharing my hoop stories is to illustrate that you should never be afraid of making a mistake or looking bad as long as you are progressing steadily toward a worthy goal and you look to learn from your experiences.

If you do that, I guarantee you if you are persistant and refuse to give up you not only will but must accomplish your goal.

That's enough inspirational crap from yours truly today so don't talk about, be about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels

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Arrange a meet or get the digits ASAP if you're meeting girls online. If she's attracted to you, she'll want to meet you...even if it's a group-date or something to make sure you're not psycho.
 

zerocelcius

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I will never meet a girl from the internet again!!! Long and horrible story!

:cuss: internet their all crazy. CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY
 

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I would lie if I was to say I'm shunning the internet. I do use it as a "supplement" and once in a while I like to dabble in it.

That being said, by and large the internet attracts the extreme AW's and gives normal women the chance to be "AW's For The Day" -
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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