“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't get addicted to MySpace and all the Internet dating

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Don't get addicted to Internet romances.

Meeting chicks online should be a supplement to your game like a vitamin supplement is to your diet.

You gotta get out and deal with women in real time. The internet is cool because you can learn things but nothing takes the place of doing it the old fashion way.

Turn the computer off, get out there and talk to chicks and yeah you'll take your lumps along the way but so has any guy who eventually gets laid.

You are trying to avoid making mistakes or saying or doing the wrong thing when this is exactly what you probably need.

Sounds crazy but it is true.

Back when I was younger and just starting to play basketball, I used to suck and I mean really suck.

I was horrible and I used to get my a$$ handed to me regularly. But I never gave up and no matter how many times I got beat I kept coming back and I was smart enough to start learning from my defeats and figuring out ways to play to my strengths and minimize my weaknesses.

I didn't go from scrub to stud overnight (this ain't no da@@ Disney movie)but I gradually got better and better until eventually I was beating people that used to beat me all the time.

I remember when I couldn't shoot a 3-pointer to save my life and I was told I couldn't do it.

I purposely went to a court several times a week and shot 3-pointers for hours and watched NBA stars and studied their shots and I turned myself into a good 3 point shooter.

The point of sharing my hoop stories is to illustrate that you should never be afraid of making a mistake or looking bad as long as you are progressing steadily toward a worthy goal and you look to learn from your experiences.

If you do that, I guarantee you if you are persistant and refuse to give up you not only will but must accomplish your goal.

That's enough inspirational crap from yours truly today so don't talk about, be about it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Arrange a meet or get the digits ASAP if you're meeting girls online. If she's attracted to you, she'll want to meet you...even if it's a group-date or something to make sure you're not psycho.
 

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I will never meet a girl from the internet again!!! Long and horrible story!

:cuss: internet their all crazy. CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY
 

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I would lie if I was to say I'm shunning the internet. I do use it as a "supplement" and once in a while I like to dabble in it.

That being said, by and large the internet attracts the extreme AW's and gives normal women the chance to be "AW's For The Day" -
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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