"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't get addicted to MySpace and all the Internet dating

disciple

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Don't get addicted to Internet romances.

Meeting chicks online should be a supplement to your game like a vitamin supplement is to your diet.

You gotta get out and deal with women in real time. The internet is cool because you can learn things but nothing takes the place of doing it the old fashion way.

Turn the computer off, get out there and talk to chicks and yeah you'll take your lumps along the way but so has any guy who eventually gets laid.

You are trying to avoid making mistakes or saying or doing the wrong thing when this is exactly what you probably need.

Sounds crazy but it is true.

Back when I was younger and just starting to play basketball, I used to suck and I mean really suck.

I was horrible and I used to get my a$$ handed to me regularly. But I never gave up and no matter how many times I got beat I kept coming back and I was smart enough to start learning from my defeats and figuring out ways to play to my strengths and minimize my weaknesses.

I didn't go from scrub to stud overnight (this ain't no da@@ Disney movie)but I gradually got better and better until eventually I was beating people that used to beat me all the time.

I remember when I couldn't shoot a 3-pointer to save my life and I was told I couldn't do it.

I purposely went to a court several times a week and shot 3-pointers for hours and watched NBA stars and studied their shots and I turned myself into a good 3 point shooter.

The point of sharing my hoop stories is to illustrate that you should never be afraid of making a mistake or looking bad as long as you are progressing steadily toward a worthy goal and you look to learn from your experiences.

If you do that, I guarantee you if you are persistant and refuse to give up you not only will but must accomplish your goal.

That's enough inspirational crap from yours truly today so don't talk about, be about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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squirrels

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Arrange a meet or get the digits ASAP if you're meeting girls online. If she's attracted to you, she'll want to meet you...even if it's a group-date or something to make sure you're not psycho.
 

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I will never meet a girl from the internet again!!! Long and horrible story!

:cuss: internet their all crazy. CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY
 

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I would lie if I was to say I'm shunning the internet. I do use it as a "supplement" and once in a while I like to dabble in it.

That being said, by and large the internet attracts the extreme AW's and gives normal women the chance to be "AW's For The Day" -
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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