Maybe the cause of you feeling week unconcetrated may have something to do with doing cardio fourteen times per week. I never eat fruit or vegetables because they have very few calories in them... but I feel fine, alert and ready for action.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"living" Doesnt consume that much calories, its the things you do, a heavy bb workout would take around 500 calories.Originally posted by DJBen
I'm assuming everyone here knows that you burn calories by just LIVING.
If you're doing all that, you should be losing about 2600 calories. Atleast. I'm no expert, I dont know how active you are, but I cant see the gains being possible.
I agree, but it is not alot, there are plenty of calculators around the net, look some up.Originally posted by DJBen
Sitting down burns calories. Walking to the store uses calories. Digesting food uses calories.
I ASSUME people here would be ACTIVE people with some sort of AMBITION. The kind of people that will either stay around this board and succeed or go back into the general AFC/Slob mindframe.
I didnt take into account people that sit at home watching TV all day. I didnt include people who stay in the house with all their free time.
When I talk about burning calories when not excserizing, this would include being at school and at work. The walking you do from A-B. Making dinner, gardening, whatever. It all burns calories. And it all adds up.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you do it properly you can, you just need to refeed every week to increase your leptine among other things.Originally posted by DJBen
It's very atkins-esque. I'm not a fan of that. Atkins gets results faster short term, but not long term.