Maybe the cause of you feeling week unconcetrated may have something to do with doing cardio fourteen times per week. I never eat fruit or vegetables because they have very few calories in them... but I feel fine, alert and ready for action.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"living" Doesnt consume that much calories, its the things you do, a heavy bb workout would take around 500 calories.Originally posted by DJBen
I'm assuming everyone here knows that you burn calories by just LIVING.
If you're doing all that, you should be losing about 2600 calories. Atleast. I'm no expert, I dont know how active you are, but I cant see the gains being possible.
I agree, but it is not alot, there are plenty of calculators around the net, look some up.Originally posted by DJBen
Sitting down burns calories. Walking to the store uses calories. Digesting food uses calories.
I ASSUME people here would be ACTIVE people with some sort of AMBITION. The kind of people that will either stay around this board and succeed or go back into the general AFC/Slob mindframe.
I didnt take into account people that sit at home watching TV all day. I didnt include people who stay in the house with all their free time.
When I talk about burning calories when not excserizing, this would include being at school and at work. The walking you do from A-B. Making dinner, gardening, whatever. It all burns calories. And it all adds up.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you do it properly you can, you just need to refeed every week to increase your leptine among other things.Originally posted by DJBen
It's very atkins-esque. I'm not a fan of that. Atkins gets results faster short term, but not long term.