Maybe the cause of you feeling week unconcetrated may have something to do with doing cardio fourteen times per week. I never eat fruit or vegetables because they have very few calories in them... but I feel fine, alert and ready for action.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"living" Doesnt consume that much calories, its the things you do, a heavy bb workout would take around 500 calories.Originally posted by DJBen
I'm assuming everyone here knows that you burn calories by just LIVING.
If you're doing all that, you should be losing about 2600 calories. Atleast. I'm no expert, I dont know how active you are, but I cant see the gains being possible.
I agree, but it is not alot, there are plenty of calculators around the net, look some up.Originally posted by DJBen
Sitting down burns calories. Walking to the store uses calories. Digesting food uses calories.
I ASSUME people here would be ACTIVE people with some sort of AMBITION. The kind of people that will either stay around this board and succeed or go back into the general AFC/Slob mindframe.
I didnt take into account people that sit at home watching TV all day. I didnt include people who stay in the house with all their free time.
When I talk about burning calories when not excserizing, this would include being at school and at work. The walking you do from A-B. Making dinner, gardening, whatever. It all burns calories. And it all adds up.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If you do it properly you can, you just need to refeed every week to increase your leptine among other things.Originally posted by DJBen
It's very atkins-esque. I'm not a fan of that. Atkins gets results faster short term, but not long term.