"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DOn't even Borther to #-close w/o rapport

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try to chat her up for as long as time until the rapport or fruit is RIPE

if shes not 'RIPE' , don't prematurely ask for the number , just say bye and walk

because you can always met her up again and chat her up and get the number...


if you ask prematurely for the number, you don't want that path to end w/o you putting your full effort in....

Its my feeling , that women don't want to be thought of as cheap sluts so they don't want to give it so easily the number...

Plus they don't know anything about you........
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont completely agree...no matter how much time you spend in that initial convo she is going to build a little summary in her head. So 10 minutes talking to an afc is not as good as 3 min with a guy who can stand out and has good potential.
 
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Basicly what you're saying is, if you know you don't yet have the report needing for her to give you her number, she probably won't. I agree.
 
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It will definatley reduce flaking... I agree with it, but sometimes it's fun to just get the number within a minute.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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"Don't even Borther (sic) to #-close w/o rapport"

Well, duh.
 
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