"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DOn't even Borther to #-close w/o rapport

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try to chat her up for as long as time until the rapport or fruit is RIPE

if shes not 'RIPE' , don't prematurely ask for the number , just say bye and walk

because you can always met her up again and chat her up and get the number...


if you ask prematurely for the number, you don't want that path to end w/o you putting your full effort in....

Its my feeling , that women don't want to be thought of as cheap sluts so they don't want to give it so easily the number...

Plus they don't know anything about you........
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i dont completely agree...no matter how much time you spend in that initial convo she is going to build a little summary in her head. So 10 minutes talking to an afc is not as good as 3 min with a guy who can stand out and has good potential.
 
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Basicly what you're saying is, if you know you don't yet have the report needing for her to give you her number, she probably won't. I agree.
 
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It will definatley reduce flaking... I agree with it, but sometimes it's fun to just get the number within a minute.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Don't even Borther (sic) to #-close w/o rapport"

Well, duh.
 
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