"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DOn't even Borther to #-close w/o rapport

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KneghtRyder

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try to chat her up for as long as time until the rapport or fruit is RIPE

if shes not 'RIPE' , don't prematurely ask for the number , just say bye and walk

because you can always met her up again and chat her up and get the number...


if you ask prematurely for the number, you don't want that path to end w/o you putting your full effort in....

Its my feeling , that women don't want to be thought of as cheap sluts so they don't want to give it so easily the number...

Plus they don't know anything about you........
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dont completely agree...no matter how much time you spend in that initial convo she is going to build a little summary in her head. So 10 minutes talking to an afc is not as good as 3 min with a guy who can stand out and has good potential.
 
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Basicly what you're saying is, if you know you don't yet have the report needing for her to give you her number, she probably won't. I agree.
 
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It will definatley reduce flaking... I agree with it, but sometimes it's fun to just get the number within a minute.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Don't even Borther (sic) to #-close w/o rapport"

Well, duh.
 
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