"Don't do that, your parents are downstairs"

[dontknowbouthat]

Yes this belongs in the HS forum, but it's empty. So here I am.

The girl that I've been seeing recently - not a gf - likes it when I make use of my fingers, and while we were 'watching' a movie at my house a few days ago I started to rub on the outside of her pants, which she really liked. I began to slide my fingers underneath her pants, when she grabbed my wrist, and said softly, "no..." to which I responded "why?" She said "your parents are downstairs", and they were, but in no position to hear anything. Regardless, I stopped.

My question is, should I have tried to go again, and whispered in her ear "it's no big deal" or something? Was this a situation where "no" really meant "no"?

 

[Tiguere]

Shouldve kept going. once that well starts overflowing she won't care if father salomon and mother marie are downstairs.

 

[alphaace]

She might of been on her period? Chicks usually dig the excitement of possibly being 'caught'. 'No' sometimes just means try harder. Try sucking/biting her neck next time she says 'no' then try again, be persistent, but don't push too hard.

 

[Proselytiser]

I would've given no response except to continue or said it's no big deal and continued.

That said I really can't figure out whether it was token or real resistance from what you've posted, it could easily have been the case that she simply wanted you to stop and used that excuse instead of flat out telling you that you were annoying her

 

[Cinamon]

I think you should have tried again. If you get three no's then stop, but sometimes the no is automatic.

 

[Abcd]

"No" usually means keep doing what you were doing before for a little longer and try me again in 2 minutes or so.

 

[Abcd]

Obviously if you get more than 2-3 no's, or if she sounds at all pissed off, it actually means no.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

You should have taken off your pants and seen what happened. Then you would have known if no meant no.