Dont call ppl?

[bbboi]

i have met three different girls some from school and work and one thing that they said was that they dont call ppl i find that weird as to why they would tell me they arent the type to call ppl? can anyone make sense of this?

 

[tsmith2334]

i've been told that before too. sometimes girls want you to make the first step. it can actually be a sign of interest.

 

[Interceptor]

Be careful since this might mean :

"I want males to be Men, and call me first. I don't make the first move."
or
"I am too self important. and self absorbed and people are simply not worth my time, and they are beneath me. So I don't call people."
or
"I am playing hard to get. This is part of the chase to see if you really want me."
or
"I am immature and also anti social."
or
"I am so self important that I don't nurture or create mature friendships and wait for people to go out of their way to interest me, enetertain me, and get my attention."

It's not a good sign, but it's not a bad sign. If you're mature, confident, and have self esteem, it won't affect you. Especially after you find out who she really is.
Since you're not desperate, and defintiely NOT desperate for an immature , low class snob, then you won't be running over coals to get with these types of females.
.

I do believe it shows poor social skills, and it is immature.

 

[L B]

How did you get all three to tell you that they don't call people? How did it even come up in the conversation in the first place? Very odd. Never happened to me before.

 

[bbboi]

thx alot and L B i didnt meet them all at once they came at separate times. Ill call them see if it gets anywhere ill post information later

 

[Lord Shinra]

I openly mock girls like that, almost to their faces. It is just a show of such immaturity, I feel that the effort just isn't worth the compensation.

 

[potato]

I never call people either. Some people just aren’t into that game; some actually see the whole obsession with getting phone numbers and calling as rather silly.

I openly mock girls like that, almost to their faces. It is just a show of such immaturity, I feel that the effort just isn't worth the compensation.

And your mocking them is mature?

 

[NSUballer]

Interceptor hit the nail on the head. But most girls dont call guys unless theyre really interested or theyre dating. I have a GF and I really dont like to call her much. And I dont have text so it drives her insane. To the point of heated arguments. Im not much of a phone person unless theyre very interesting

 

[bbboi]

yea i spoke to one of them and i realized she a watse of time came with a i called to wish you merry christmas and i left you a message which never hapenned and had to just brush her off the games some ppl play ridiculous

 

[Lord Shinra]

I never call people either. Some people just aren’t into that game; some actually see the whole obsession with getting phone numbers and calling as rather silly.


And your mocking them is mature?

Yeah, if you do it in a way that is 3rd grade like is very immature.
However, they just left the door open to neg or some other BS. Be unique and dont supplicate with the text game, thats what I do.

 

[BustedKnucks]

Always tell the girl you'll call her. You have to make things happen, not wait for things to happen to you if you want to be succesful.