"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Dont call ppl?

bbboi

New Member
Joined
Oct 10, 2007
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
i have met three different girls some from school and work and one thing that they said was that they dont call ppl i find that weird as to why they would tell me they arent the type to call ppl? can anyone make sense of this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
i've been told that before too. sometimes girls want you to make the first step. it can actually be a sign of interest.
 

Interceptor

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2007
Messages
2,609
Reaction score
135
Location
Florida
Be careful since this might mean :

"I want males to be Men, and call me first. I don't make the first move."
or
"I am too self important. and self absorbed and people are simply not worth my time, and they are beneath me. So I don't call people."
or
"I am playing hard to get. This is part of the chase to see if you really want me."
or
"I am immature and also anti social."
or
"I am so self important that I don't nurture or create mature friendships and wait for people to go out of their way to interest me, enetertain me, and get my attention."

It's not a good sign, but it's not a bad sign. If you're mature, confident, and have self esteem, it won't affect you. Especially after you find out who she really is.
Since you're not desperate, and defintiely NOT desperate for an immature , low class snob, then you won't be running over coals to get with these types of females.
.

I do believe it shows poor social skills, and it is immature.
 

L B

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2004
Messages
526
Reaction score
9
Location
OC
How did you get all three to tell you that they don't call people? How did it even come up in the conversation in the first place? Very odd. Never happened to me before.
 

bbboi

New Member
Joined
Oct 10, 2007
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
thx alot and L B i didnt meet them all at once they came at separate times. Ill call them see if it gets anywhere ill post information later
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Lord Shinra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
341
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ
I openly mock girls like that, almost to their faces. It is just a show of such immaturity, I feel that the effort just isn't worth the compensation.
 

potato

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2007
Messages
474
Reaction score
17
I never call people either. Some people just aren’t into that game; some actually see the whole obsession with getting phone numbers and calling as rather silly.


Lord Shinra said:
I openly mock girls like that, almost to their faces. It is just a show of such immaturity, I feel that the effort just isn't worth the compensation.
And your mocking them is mature?
 

NSUballer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2005
Messages
459
Reaction score
7
Age
40
Location
New Orleans
Interceptor hit the nail on the head. But most girls dont call guys unless theyre really interested or theyre dating. I have a GF and I really dont like to call her much. And I dont have text so it drives her insane. To the point of heated arguments. Im not much of a phone person unless theyre very interesting
 

bbboi

New Member
Joined
Oct 10, 2007
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
yea i spoke to one of them and i realized she a watse of time came with a i called to wish you merry christmas and i left you a message which never hapenned and had to just brush her off the games some ppl play ridiculous
 

Lord Shinra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
341
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ
potato said:
I never call people either. Some people just aren’t into that game; some actually see the whole obsession with getting phone numbers and calling as rather silly.


And your mocking them is mature?
Yeah, if you do it in a way that is 3rd grade like is very immature.
However, they just left the door open to neg or some other BS. Be unique and dont supplicate with the text game, thats what I do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top