Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dont call ppl?
- Thread starter bbboi
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
"I want males to be Men, and call me first. I don't make the first move."
or
"I am too self important. and self absorbed and people are simply not worth my time, and they are beneath me. So I don't call people."
or
"I am playing hard to get. This is part of the chase to see if you really want me."
or
"I am immature and also anti social."
or
"I am so self important that I don't nurture or create mature friendships and wait for people to go out of their way to interest me, enetertain me, and get my attention."
It's not a good sign, but it's not a bad sign. If you're mature, confident, and have self esteem, it won't affect you. Especially after you find out who she really is.
Since you're not desperate, and defintiely NOT desperate for an immature , low class snob, then you won't be running over coals to get with these types of females.
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I do believe it shows poor social skills, and it is immature.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
And your mocking them is mature?Lord Shinra said:I openly mock girls like that, almost to their faces. It is just a show of such immaturity, I feel that the effort just isn't worth the compensation.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, if you do it in a way that is 3rd grade like is very immature.potato said:I never call people either. Some people just aren’t into that game; some actually see the whole obsession with getting phone numbers and calling as rather silly.
And your mocking them is mature?
However, they just left the door open to neg or some other BS. Be unique and dont supplicate with the text game, thats what I do.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.