"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dont Be This Man!!

Bilogomja

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yea... complete loser.

a) he's ass ugly
b) has no style
c) he doesn't have a real job
d) obviously the guy is a moron (he can't even spell female)
e) how the hell is that hair color brown? Looks more reddish to me?
f) 49 years old, and looking for 18-24 year old chicks?! Gimme a f***en break. Maybe if the chick is mentally challenged she'll buy his sh**.
g) the dush bag needs a personals site to get women, that's a easily the sign of being a AFC.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
How is being self employed imply not successful? Bill Gates is self employed. For all you know this guy could be a software billionaire!
True, but even if he were a billionaire it wouldn't make him any more suave with women. The guy is a chump... his status is something to be avoided by those of us who know what it is. Getting women because you're rich is no different than buying a hooker because you're a loser... they're only after the money, honey.

One of my female friends actually told some rich dude to "**** off" after he tried to buy her off. From the way she described him, he sounded exactly like that guy there.:D
 

Jariel

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I think this is one to add to the "looks vs. game" debate. No amount of game could help this guy!!

The thing is, if he wiped that cartoony smile off his face and made an effort with his appearance and style, and toned up, he'd probably not look so bad. Meanwhile, he should be lowering his standards instead of expecting women to lower theirs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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