"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont Be This Man!!

Bilogomja

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yea... complete loser.

a) he's ass ugly
b) has no style
c) he doesn't have a real job
d) obviously the guy is a moron (he can't even spell female)
e) how the hell is that hair color brown? Looks more reddish to me?
f) 49 years old, and looking for 18-24 year old chicks?! Gimme a f***en break. Maybe if the chick is mentally challenged she'll buy his sh**.
g) the dush bag needs a personals site to get women, that's a easily the sign of being a AFC.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
How is being self employed imply not successful? Bill Gates is self employed. For all you know this guy could be a software billionaire!
True, but even if he were a billionaire it wouldn't make him any more suave with women. The guy is a chump... his status is something to be avoided by those of us who know what it is. Getting women because you're rich is no different than buying a hooker because you're a loser... they're only after the money, honey.

One of my female friends actually told some rich dude to "**** off" after he tried to buy her off. From the way she described him, he sounded exactly like that guy there.:D
 

Jariel

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I think this is one to add to the "looks vs. game" debate. No amount of game could help this guy!!

The thing is, if he wiped that cartoony smile off his face and made an effort with his appearance and style, and toned up, he'd probably not look so bad. Meanwhile, he should be lowering his standards instead of expecting women to lower theirs.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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