"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dont Be This Man!!

Bilogomja

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yea... complete loser.

a) he's ass ugly
b) has no style
c) he doesn't have a real job
d) obviously the guy is a moron (he can't even spell female)
e) how the hell is that hair color brown? Looks more reddish to me?
f) 49 years old, and looking for 18-24 year old chicks?! Gimme a f***en break. Maybe if the chick is mentally challenged she'll buy his sh**.
g) the dush bag needs a personals site to get women, that's a easily the sign of being a AFC.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
How is being self employed imply not successful? Bill Gates is self employed. For all you know this guy could be a software billionaire!
True, but even if he were a billionaire it wouldn't make him any more suave with women. The guy is a chump... his status is something to be avoided by those of us who know what it is. Getting women because you're rich is no different than buying a hooker because you're a loser... they're only after the money, honey.

One of my female friends actually told some rich dude to "**** off" after he tried to buy her off. From the way she described him, he sounded exactly like that guy there.:D
 

Jariel

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I think this is one to add to the "looks vs. game" debate. No amount of game could help this guy!!

The thing is, if he wiped that cartoony smile off his face and made an effort with his appearance and style, and toned up, he'd probably not look so bad. Meanwhile, he should be lowering his standards instead of expecting women to lower theirs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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