"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't be stupid like me

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cobrajoe

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Yeah, I learned a valuable lesson tonite. One that I already knew. I have many girls that are friends (something i recomend also), and many of them have boyfriends.

Anyways, back to the lesson. Never go out with a girl and her boyfriend...and don't even think about it if you actually like the girl. It'll make you feel like crap, and remind you how you actually rate with her.

I know what you are gonna say, don't bother with a girl if she has a boyfriend, don't get sucked in with oneitis, and crap like that. But in my defence, I am finding out that I am a rare breed, and there are limited girls I can stand talking to. (well, that's my excuse)

Has anyone else found this to be true, or am I the only one?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No .. you'll often find this in fact. Especially if you don't go for the flakey types. The primary reason is that most of the good ones are taken early and stay commited. They will leave their boyfriend however if their better judgement tells them to do so and have a strong attraction for someone else.

I'm not so sure about recommending being friends with girls you like, it can cause frustration and kill their passion for you if they had any to begin with. I suggest being friends but in fast mode, in other words, show your interest in subtle ways and read her actions etc. and take it to the next level when convenient for both of you, provided the attraction is mutual.
 
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I chilled with this girl i loved and her BF who was an acquaintance of mine.

She was giving me alot of attention so i bet he was feeling kinda sh1tty.

Me and her ended up dating like 2 months later.
 
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theres this one girl who is going out with my friend and she's hot as hell and is always touching me and screaming my name and sh*t, showing lots of interest but its gay when he's around because I feel all sh*tty. I actually try to avoid the girl at school now a days but that usually fails..and this morning I was at the store hung over looking for some breakfast food and there she was..I was like "what a shame she can't get any Don Juan certified ****".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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