"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cobrajoe

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Yeah, I learned a valuable lesson tonite. One that I already knew. I have many girls that are friends (something i recomend also), and many of them have boyfriends.

Anyways, back to the lesson. Never go out with a girl and her boyfriend...and don't even think about it if you actually like the girl. It'll make you feel like crap, and remind you how you actually rate with her.

I know what you are gonna say, don't bother with a girl if she has a boyfriend, don't get sucked in with oneitis, and crap like that. But in my defence, I am finding out that I am a rare breed, and there are limited girls I can stand talking to. (well, that's my excuse)

Has anyone else found this to be true, or am I the only one?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No .. you'll often find this in fact. Especially if you don't go for the flakey types. The primary reason is that most of the good ones are taken early and stay commited. They will leave their boyfriend however if their better judgement tells them to do so and have a strong attraction for someone else.

I'm not so sure about recommending being friends with girls you like, it can cause frustration and kill their passion for you if they had any to begin with. I suggest being friends but in fast mode, in other words, show your interest in subtle ways and read her actions etc. and take it to the next level when convenient for both of you, provided the attraction is mutual.
 
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I chilled with this girl i loved and her BF who was an acquaintance of mine.

She was giving me alot of attention so i bet he was feeling kinda sh1tty.

Me and her ended up dating like 2 months later.
 
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theres this one girl who is going out with my friend and she's hot as hell and is always touching me and screaming my name and sh*t, showing lots of interest but its gay when he's around because I feel all sh*tty. I actually try to avoid the girl at school now a days but that usually fails..and this morning I was at the store hung over looking for some breakfast food and there she was..I was like "what a shame she can't get any Don Juan certified ****".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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