"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cobrajoe

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Yeah, I learned a valuable lesson tonite. One that I already knew. I have many girls that are friends (something i recomend also), and many of them have boyfriends.

Anyways, back to the lesson. Never go out with a girl and her boyfriend...and don't even think about it if you actually like the girl. It'll make you feel like crap, and remind you how you actually rate with her.

I know what you are gonna say, don't bother with a girl if she has a boyfriend, don't get sucked in with oneitis, and crap like that. But in my defence, I am finding out that I am a rare breed, and there are limited girls I can stand talking to. (well, that's my excuse)

Has anyone else found this to be true, or am I the only one?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No .. you'll often find this in fact. Especially if you don't go for the flakey types. The primary reason is that most of the good ones are taken early and stay commited. They will leave their boyfriend however if their better judgement tells them to do so and have a strong attraction for someone else.

I'm not so sure about recommending being friends with girls you like, it can cause frustration and kill their passion for you if they had any to begin with. I suggest being friends but in fast mode, in other words, show your interest in subtle ways and read her actions etc. and take it to the next level when convenient for both of you, provided the attraction is mutual.
 
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I chilled with this girl i loved and her BF who was an acquaintance of mine.

She was giving me alot of attention so i bet he was feeling kinda sh1tty.

Me and her ended up dating like 2 months later.
 
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theres this one girl who is going out with my friend and she's hot as hell and is always touching me and screaming my name and sh*t, showing lots of interest but its gay when he's around because I feel all sh*tty. I actually try to avoid the girl at school now a days but that usually fails..and this morning I was at the store hung over looking for some breakfast food and there she was..I was like "what a shame she can't get any Don Juan certified ****".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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