"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't be sheep

cola

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Most people are sheep. A select few people are shepherds. People follow blindly a select few people who demonstrate leader mentality. The shepherds are the ones who have the pick of the women. Please don't be sheep. Always do what you want to do and feel right doing and watch how many follow.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Humans are sheepish by nature. It isnt some.sort of conspiracy by an esoteric group to keep humans in line.

Go to youtube and checkout the solomon asch social experiment.

its frightening to go againts the herd..against the current and display any sort of deviance and individuality. Youll get tossed aside as an outcast realquick.
 

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There no greater freedom than not giving a f. Let them have their world find some like minded individuals and create your own.
 
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