Most people are sheep. A select few people are shepherds. People follow blindly a select few people who demonstrate leader mentality. The shepherds are the ones who have the pick of the women. Please don't be sheep. Always do what you want to do and feel right doing and watch how many follow.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't be sheep
- Thread starter cola
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Humans are sheepish by nature. It isnt some.sort of conspiracy by an esoteric group to keep humans in line.
Go to youtube and checkout the solomon asch social experiment.
its frightening to go againts the herd..against the current and display any sort of deviance and individuality. Youll get tossed aside as an outcast realquick.
Go to youtube and checkout the solomon asch social experiment.
its frightening to go againts the herd..against the current and display any sort of deviance and individuality. Youll get tossed aside as an outcast realquick.