"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Marcellus Wallace (OS) " - you may
feel a slight sting, that's pride
fvck in' wit ya. fvck pride! Pride
only hurts, it never helps.
Fight
through that sh!t."​

In our endless pursuit of clarity we're always looking to put up a front when it comes to our relationships and the way we handle issues. I'm telling you now that your ego will do nothing but fvck you up in every way. Learn to listen to your gut; what Keyes calls your "little man". My little man has NEVER done me wrong. Only when my ego needed a boost would I allow the kid in me to briefly take over. I have since rectified that by thinking things through and envisioning the future from multiple points of view. Since then my congruence has become more streamlined and direct. I think what has really helped me is by studying and practicing Existentialism. Kant, Heidegger and Sartre being the most helpful.

You guys having issues really outta think about taking a philosophy course or reading a few books. One in particular being Irrational Man by William Barrett. Wonderful starting point.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ego? Is that what you guys call it? I call it my brain.
 

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I completely agree what with what you're saying, although I tend to prefer Aristotle since he can actually write. Kant's Critique of Pure Reason has to be the worst writing I've ever encountered.
 

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Seriously, though, when we talk of ego are we talking the Freudian ego in which it regulates our actions or the ego we think about on a day to day basis which basically some form of narcissism?

As for me I've done away with existentialism, especially after that paper for a college course I wrote. It was finding existential meaning in the music of the Rolling Stones I titled it "You, Kant, always get what you want" :D

I actually do prefer Nietzsche. Which I feel would be beneffical to all aspiring DJs. "The will to power" and all that good stuff.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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THAT was really touching.....................ur really fraeking advanced broo...keep the great work
 

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I understand this, and I've understood it for a while now. But actually putting into practice in real life is a whole other thing and I've never been able to do it. I'm constantly protecting my ego, my self-esteem, and it only hurts me, but I can't help it.
 

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This has something to do with intelligence in males doesn't it?
 

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theunflushables said:
Seriously, though, when we talk of ego are we talking the Freudian ego in which it regulates our actions or the ego we think about on a day to day basis which basically some form of narcissism?

As for me I've done away with existentialism, especially after that paper for a college course I wrote. It was finding existential meaning in the music of the Rolling Stones I titled it "You, Kant, always get what you want" :D

I actually do prefer Nietzsche. Which I feel would be beneffical to all aspiring DJs. "The will to power" and all that good stuff.
I don't consider Neitzsche to be a true Existentialist. I think him to be more of a stauch nihilist and postmodernist.

How can anyone believe him to influence DJ philosophy when he supposedly died a virgin?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah Nietzsche wasnt an existentialist at all. And he may have been a virgin when he died (some say he may have been gay). However I find his "Will to Power" idea very much living up to the ideal of a DJ even if he was all talk.
 

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uh...philosophy is pretty much bull****. just use ur head and be rational. i dont need a fvcking book to tell me that
 

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Potbelly said:
uh...philosophy is pretty much bull****. just use ur head and be rational. i dont need a fvcking book to tell me that
I guess your youthly words of wisdom should be regarded as Gospel?

Philosophy is bullsh!t to those who do not have the mental constitution to understand it.
 

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Master Bates said:
I'm constantly protecting my ego, my self-esteem, and it only hurts me, but I can't help it.
Like I said brother, Learn to leggo your ego. Once you realize the small (and sometimes the big) sh!t don't matter you can see things as they truly are.

The ego and the emotional b!tch who lives inside all men need to be contained and tamed like an animal.

You'll get it brother. It'll take a coupla' hard fvcking knocks to the head bbut they're life lessons we all need to learn and unfortunately the best lessons hurt the worst.
 

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It's kinda of like that scene towards the end of Fight Club where they're driving the car, and Tyler Durden tells him to let go. Brilliant.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KarmaSutra said:
The fvck are you flapping gums about?
gee, what happened to ''let go off your ego '' someones not following there own post :rolleyes:
 

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Fvcking tool. What the hell does me asking you what the fvck you're squawking about have to do with my ego?

Oh, I've just had a revelation! If one of those goddamned gurus doesn't tell what you to think or say it can't be true. Tell ya what sheep, go listen to more Deangelo, RSD, Mystery Method garbage and forget all about thinking for yourself. It won't help you anyway.
 

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your ego is telling you that this guy is threat so you reply with a threat in order to feel like the man again.

lol it seems like you have more than just an ego problem
Roar

Honestly I don't care because you don't know me ......

I love you too MWAAHH Kiss kiss :flowers:

your post is true but it sounds like something out of rsd, the power of now, its just a forum dude relax, Just because I know of RSD doesnt make me a pua junkie or an obsessed follower.

chill out
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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