"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't be afraid to leggo your ego

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Marcellus Wallace (OS) " - you may
feel a slight sting, that's pride
fvck in' wit ya. fvck pride! Pride
only hurts, it never helps.
Fight
through that sh!t."​

In our endless pursuit of clarity we're always looking to put up a front when it comes to our relationships and the way we handle issues. I'm telling you now that your ego will do nothing but fvck you up in every way. Learn to listen to your gut; what Keyes calls your "little man". My little man has NEVER done me wrong. Only when my ego needed a boost would I allow the kid in me to briefly take over. I have since rectified that by thinking things through and envisioning the future from multiple points of view. Since then my congruence has become more streamlined and direct. I think what has really helped me is by studying and practicing Existentialism. Kant, Heidegger and Sartre being the most helpful.

You guys having issues really outta think about taking a philosophy course or reading a few books. One in particular being Irrational Man by William Barrett. Wonderful starting point.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ego? Is that what you guys call it? I call it my brain.
 

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I completely agree what with what you're saying, although I tend to prefer Aristotle since he can actually write. Kant's Critique of Pure Reason has to be the worst writing I've ever encountered.
 

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Seriously, though, when we talk of ego are we talking the Freudian ego in which it regulates our actions or the ego we think about on a day to day basis which basically some form of narcissism?

As for me I've done away with existentialism, especially after that paper for a college course I wrote. It was finding existential meaning in the music of the Rolling Stones I titled it "You, Kant, always get what you want" :D

I actually do prefer Nietzsche. Which I feel would be beneffical to all aspiring DJs. "The will to power" and all that good stuff.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow

THAT was really touching.....................ur really fraeking advanced broo...keep the great work
 

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I understand this, and I've understood it for a while now. But actually putting into practice in real life is a whole other thing and I've never been able to do it. I'm constantly protecting my ego, my self-esteem, and it only hurts me, but I can't help it.
 

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This has something to do with intelligence in males doesn't it?
 

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theunflushables said:
Seriously, though, when we talk of ego are we talking the Freudian ego in which it regulates our actions or the ego we think about on a day to day basis which basically some form of narcissism?

As for me I've done away with existentialism, especially after that paper for a college course I wrote. It was finding existential meaning in the music of the Rolling Stones I titled it "You, Kant, always get what you want" :D

I actually do prefer Nietzsche. Which I feel would be beneffical to all aspiring DJs. "The will to power" and all that good stuff.
I don't consider Neitzsche to be a true Existentialist. I think him to be more of a stauch nihilist and postmodernist.

How can anyone believe him to influence DJ philosophy when he supposedly died a virgin?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah Nietzsche wasnt an existentialist at all. And he may have been a virgin when he died (some say he may have been gay). However I find his "Will to Power" idea very much living up to the ideal of a DJ even if he was all talk.
 

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uh...philosophy is pretty much bull****. just use ur head and be rational. i dont need a fvcking book to tell me that
 

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Potbelly said:
uh...philosophy is pretty much bull****. just use ur head and be rational. i dont need a fvcking book to tell me that
I guess your youthly words of wisdom should be regarded as Gospel?

Philosophy is bullsh!t to those who do not have the mental constitution to understand it.
 

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Master Bates said:
I'm constantly protecting my ego, my self-esteem, and it only hurts me, but I can't help it.
Like I said brother, Learn to leggo your ego. Once you realize the small (and sometimes the big) sh!t don't matter you can see things as they truly are.

The ego and the emotional b!tch who lives inside all men need to be contained and tamed like an animal.

You'll get it brother. It'll take a coupla' hard fvcking knocks to the head bbut they're life lessons we all need to learn and unfortunately the best lessons hurt the worst.
 

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It's kinda of like that scene towards the end of Fight Club where they're driving the car, and Tyler Durden tells him to let go. Brilliant.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KarmaSutra said:
The fvck are you flapping gums about?
gee, what happened to ''let go off your ego '' someones not following there own post :rolleyes:
 

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Fvcking tool. What the hell does me asking you what the fvck you're squawking about have to do with my ego?

Oh, I've just had a revelation! If one of those goddamned gurus doesn't tell what you to think or say it can't be true. Tell ya what sheep, go listen to more Deangelo, RSD, Mystery Method garbage and forget all about thinking for yourself. It won't help you anyway.
 

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your ego is telling you that this guy is threat so you reply with a threat in order to feel like the man again.

lol it seems like you have more than just an ego problem
Roar

Honestly I don't care because you don't know me ......

I love you too MWAAHH Kiss kiss :flowers:

your post is true but it sounds like something out of rsd, the power of now, its just a forum dude relax, Just because I know of RSD doesnt make me a pua junkie or an obsessed follower.

chill out
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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