"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dont assume or attatch meaning...

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as i've posted before, im still actively getting over this shyness problem..so i like to post experiences i have and new things that i learn.

today i went to this mma club around my house to get some information. i walked in and the receptionist greeted me..i assumed she was in her 20's from the way she looked..pretty hot. anyways, she keeps talking to me and trying to start a conversation, and in the back of my mind in thinking (wtf, im only 17 why is she talking to me like this)...because of this, and because of old habit, i didnt really say much, and i started feeling a little nervous. i could tell she was intersted. i kept talking to her and found out shes my age.

before i found out about her, in my mind i was attatching meaning to just plain things i observed, such as the way she looked and her age, without knowing the facts. i assumed because she looked older, she wouldnt be interested. things like this happen everyday to us...maybe somebody forgot to call you when they said they would, then you attatch meaning to that and assume they dont like u, or they dont care, when in reality something totaly different might have happened like they slept in or they just plain forgot :) .

i noticed in my life i was always attatching negative meanings to situations where i didnt know the facts...and this can damage us.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have been told the same thing by others regarding the labeling of subcultures. However, I still would not dare speak to an "Emo" girl because, while I do not dislike them personally, I dislike what they represent. Sometimes labelling will interfere no matter what.
 
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I SPEAK to emos, I just would'nt date one. (actually, if they were hot, I'd work the friends with benegits anyhoo.)
 
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hahahaha this thread...

from something about a 20 yr old chick to banging emos...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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