"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Juan thing to do?

mobius

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Tomorrow I have my college pre-cal final exam. All semester there was this hot girl who sat right near me, yet I never started a single conversation with her since I had my mind set on another chick in another class.

Even though tomorrow is the last day, would it be okay to actually get some conversation going and try to get her number?

Or should I not even bother with it since I am trying to start something with another girl? I think it would be a good way to test out my skills and build up my confidence.

For those knowledgable, your opinions and advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Soprano

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do you want to call her later and go out

i think the "don jaun thing to do" would be do whatever the **** u want...
 

mobius

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I have nothing to lose really. There is no real way I could embarrass myself. I even have what I'll first say to her in mind already.

Carpe diem right?
 

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I agree with JC. Put it another way - let's say you ignore her and make your move on the girl you're more interested in. You have a date and find that you have nothing in common, and/or the date went sour.

On the other hand, let's say you try and get something going with the girl that was in your class. You get a date and have an absolute ball, she's hot, intelligent, and is interested in similar things to you.

Which would you rather date in this reality? Attraction is based on layers - the first layer is the looks, then you have intelligence, connection, and the list goes on. That's why most young woman date 'jerks' yet as they get older they realise there's more to a relationship and they never marry the jerk.

Cheers
Maggs
 

Lost In Translation

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listen to JC

the best thing i every did was sarge when i was younger

when you confront your fears you realise

someone saying no is just someone saying no

we blow $hit out of proportion

it means nothing

and we grow BOLDER

the next time the fear is less

KILL THE FEAR

the best saying ever invented is NIKE

JUST DO IT !


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

“Stay awake...because the name of the game is to put you to sleep , and the next part is to keep you asleep” – Chuck D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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