"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juan thing to do?

mobius

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Tomorrow I have my college pre-cal final exam. All semester there was this hot girl who sat right near me, yet I never started a single conversation with her since I had my mind set on another chick in another class.

Even though tomorrow is the last day, would it be okay to actually get some conversation going and try to get her number?

Or should I not even bother with it since I am trying to start something with another girl? I think it would be a good way to test out my skills and build up my confidence.

For those knowledgable, your opinions and advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Soprano

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do you want to call her later and go out

i think the "don jaun thing to do" would be do whatever the **** u want...
 

mobius

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I have nothing to lose really. There is no real way I could embarrass myself. I even have what I'll first say to her in mind already.

Carpe diem right?
 

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I agree with JC. Put it another way - let's say you ignore her and make your move on the girl you're more interested in. You have a date and find that you have nothing in common, and/or the date went sour.

On the other hand, let's say you try and get something going with the girl that was in your class. You get a date and have an absolute ball, she's hot, intelligent, and is interested in similar things to you.

Which would you rather date in this reality? Attraction is based on layers - the first layer is the looks, then you have intelligence, connection, and the list goes on. That's why most young woman date 'jerks' yet as they get older they realise there's more to a relationship and they never marry the jerk.

Cheers
Maggs
 

Lost In Translation

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listen to JC

the best thing i every did was sarge when i was younger

when you confront your fears you realise

someone saying no is just someone saying no

we blow $hit out of proportion

it means nothing

and we grow BOLDER

the next time the fear is less

KILL THE FEAR

the best saying ever invented is NIKE

JUST DO IT !


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

“Stay awake...because the name of the game is to put you to sleep , and the next part is to keep you asleep” – Chuck D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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