"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don Juan thing to do?

mobius

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Tomorrow I have my college pre-cal final exam. All semester there was this hot girl who sat right near me, yet I never started a single conversation with her since I had my mind set on another chick in another class.

Even though tomorrow is the last day, would it be okay to actually get some conversation going and try to get her number?

Or should I not even bother with it since I am trying to start something with another girl? I think it would be a good way to test out my skills and build up my confidence.

For those knowledgable, your opinions and advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Soprano

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do you want to call her later and go out

i think the "don jaun thing to do" would be do whatever the **** u want...
 

mobius

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I have nothing to lose really. There is no real way I could embarrass myself. I even have what I'll first say to her in mind already.

Carpe diem right?
 

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I agree with JC. Put it another way - let's say you ignore her and make your move on the girl you're more interested in. You have a date and find that you have nothing in common, and/or the date went sour.

On the other hand, let's say you try and get something going with the girl that was in your class. You get a date and have an absolute ball, she's hot, intelligent, and is interested in similar things to you.

Which would you rather date in this reality? Attraction is based on layers - the first layer is the looks, then you have intelligence, connection, and the list goes on. That's why most young woman date 'jerks' yet as they get older they realise there's more to a relationship and they never marry the jerk.

Cheers
Maggs
 

Lost In Translation

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listen to JC

the best thing i every did was sarge when i was younger

when you confront your fears you realise

someone saying no is just someone saying no

we blow $hit out of proportion

it means nothing

and we grow BOLDER

the next time the fear is less

KILL THE FEAR

the best saying ever invented is NIKE

JUST DO IT !


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

“Stay awake...because the name of the game is to put you to sleep , and the next part is to keep you asleep” – Chuck D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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