“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Htienvu

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I have a rough idea of what being a DJ is but I want the full meaning of it. Can you guys list what a true DJ is please, it will be like a guide line for me to refer to and improve myself.

Thanks all in advance...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Iceberg

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I don't like the idea of working under "cool" internet labels, so I won't tell you what a DJ is or how to become one.

This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.

I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
 

Warrior74

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Screw being a Duan Juan. That sh1t is lame. Just be yourself and be the best guy you can be. You know the 'you' in your head? the one that dresses the way you want to dress, and talks the way you want to talk, and does the things you want to do? Start trying to be him 247.

Just enjoy your life, date some girls. Have some fun. That's what its all about.
 

Htienvu

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I don't want to be labeled, I don't think it's some cool name, I don't want to be a player, I am myself and I am the best guy to me. However, I never want to stop improving myself, you guys talk about DJ this/that all the time, I'd like what the positives of "DJ" means so I can improve further. I will not live by what you guys say but it's like a reference point, if I disagree or don't like any of the traits I can discard them. I'll make those decisions myself as an adult would.
 

rushing dude 123

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DJ: chases his dreams, takes what he wants, never gives up on himself, lives life to the fullest.

These are the basics qualities i think a dj should have and they will vary depending on what type of person you want to become. No one can really label you a DJ except yourself, because it is not what other people think about you, but it is how you see yourself and who you are to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be your self, but one thing made me stronger on this site. Don't take any bull shyt from a girl. I been more able to walk away with more confidence when any drama are mind games occur with women...
 

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Iceberg said:
I don't like the idea of working under "cool" internet labels, so I won't tell you what a DJ is or how to become one.

This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.

I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
iceberg's got it down. even in the short time that I've been here, what I've realized from the advice given to me by master DJs is always be a MAN.

a man is confident, a man does not hide his sexual nature, a man does not take **** from anyone (esp women), and a man is in control of his life and knows what he wants from it. a man does not bow down to women, become spineless and try to mold himself into what he thinks women like.

so be the MAN and women will come to you. but know that not all of them will come, and not all of them will stay. but that shouldn't matter, because you're a MAN
 
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