"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don Juan? Please explain...
- Thread starter Htienvu
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.
I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
Just enjoy your life, date some girls. Have some fun. That's what its all about.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
These are the basics qualities i think a dj should have and they will vary depending on what type of person you want to become. No one can really label you a DJ except yourself, because it is not what other people think about you, but it is how you see yourself and who you are to you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
iceberg's got it down. even in the short time that I've been here, what I've realized from the advice given to me by master DJs is always be a MAN.Iceberg said:I don't like the idea of working under "cool" internet labels, so I won't tell you what a DJ is or how to become one.
This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.
I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
a man is confident, a man does not hide his sexual nature, a man does not take **** from anyone (esp women), and a man is in control of his life and knows what he wants from it. a man does not bow down to women, become spineless and try to mold himself into what he thinks women like.
so be the MAN and women will come to you. but know that not all of them will come, and not all of them will stay. but that shouldn't matter, because you're a MAN