“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don Juan? Please explain...

Htienvu

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I have a rough idea of what being a DJ is but I want the full meaning of it. Can you guys list what a true DJ is please, it will be like a guide line for me to refer to and improve myself.

Thanks all in advance...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iceberg

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I don't like the idea of working under "cool" internet labels, so I won't tell you what a DJ is or how to become one.

This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.

I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
 

Warrior74

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Screw being a Duan Juan. That sh1t is lame. Just be yourself and be the best guy you can be. You know the 'you' in your head? the one that dresses the way you want to dress, and talks the way you want to talk, and does the things you want to do? Start trying to be him 247.

Just enjoy your life, date some girls. Have some fun. That's what its all about.
 

Htienvu

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I don't want to be labeled, I don't think it's some cool name, I don't want to be a player, I am myself and I am the best guy to me. However, I never want to stop improving myself, you guys talk about DJ this/that all the time, I'd like what the positives of "DJ" means so I can improve further. I will not live by what you guys say but it's like a reference point, if I disagree or don't like any of the traits I can discard them. I'll make those decisions myself as an adult would.
 

rushing dude 123

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DJ: chases his dreams, takes what he wants, never gives up on himself, lives life to the fullest.

These are the basics qualities i think a dj should have and they will vary depending on what type of person you want to become. No one can really label you a DJ except yourself, because it is not what other people think about you, but it is how you see yourself and who you are to you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be your self, but one thing made me stronger on this site. Don't take any bull shyt from a girl. I been more able to walk away with more confidence when any drama are mind games occur with women...
 

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Iceberg said:
I don't like the idea of working under "cool" internet labels, so I won't tell you what a DJ is or how to become one.

This site is about becoming a better man. Guys first come here to get help with getting girls. But really it's about becoming the man that girls would want to date. It's not about pickup lines, and nice shirts. It's about becoming curious about the world...developing hobbies, traveling, setting goals and accomplishing them.

I don't want to be a DJ or a Player or a Pimp. I'm an adult...there's no need to label how I live. The goal here is to become a better man who can accept the ups and downs of dating women because he has bigger things going on in his life.
iceberg's got it down. even in the short time that I've been here, what I've realized from the advice given to me by master DJs is always be a MAN.

a man is confident, a man does not hide his sexual nature, a man does not take **** from anyone (esp women), and a man is in control of his life and knows what he wants from it. a man does not bow down to women, become spineless and try to mold himself into what he thinks women like.

so be the MAN and women will come to you. but know that not all of them will come, and not all of them will stay. but that shouldn't matter, because you're a MAN
 
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