"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GG: How far out do you think you are on the camcorder? This is one of the things I wanted us to have. I think it would be a good idea to have some small, digital recording devices. I think I still have one of these, but the quality is quite poor.

How do we want to track attendies and post results?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A good majority of the DJ population hails from Canada. :)
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BINGO!!! Anybody interested in holding one in Ottawa? I know at least a FEW (5 or so) dj's are here. I'd be up for it. We can pick up a few girls and go down a few pints at a sports bar or the like. I don't do clubs. lol
 
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Guys, I created a new thread in the Wingman forum titled "Don Juan Experiment". Please post your Cities and what you'd like to see happen. Also, I suck at titlles. Can someone please suggest some names for the event?
 
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What about Australia? Nobody cares about us :(
 
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Australia is out of the question for me as the fares and flight time is too much. However, I'd be happy to share materials, ideas, and so forth with an Australian branch.

I'm sure I'll make it "down under" some day. Sadly, that could be 3-5 years down the road (assuming I am still alive).

If you're seriously interested in spearheading an Australian movement or attending one of the North American movements, please PM me your contact information such as an email address.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Movement"? Sounds creepy :)

However I will be in the US (or Canada) all of next year, so if this is still going on, I'd be interested in attending. I've always wanted to see your notorious "American women". ;)
 
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i would so do it, but the hard part is always "how to get there." im fifteen and can't even drive. i guess those who do it can tell me about it online or somethang.
 
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I'd definitely be down, except for the small issue of living in Australia :D good luck to all though if it goes ahead
 
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