"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cool

GG: How far out do you think you are on the camcorder? This is one of the things I wanted us to have. I think it would be a good idea to have some small, digital recording devices. I think I still have one of these, but the quality is quite poor.

How do we want to track attendies and post results?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by fuzzx
A good majority of the DJ population hails from Canada. :)
BINGO!!! Anybody interested in holding one in Ottawa? I know at least a FEW (5 or so) dj's are here. I'd be up for it. We can pick up a few girls and go down a few pints at a sports bar or the like. I don't do clubs. lol
 

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Guys, I created a new thread in the Wingman forum titled "Don Juan Experiment". Please post your Cities and what you'd like to see happen. Also, I suck at titlles. Can someone please suggest some names for the event?
 

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What about Australia? Nobody cares about us :(
 

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I do

Australia is out of the question for me as the fares and flight time is too much. However, I'd be happy to share materials, ideas, and so forth with an Australian branch.

I'm sure I'll make it "down under" some day. Sadly, that could be 3-5 years down the road (assuming I am still alive).

If you're seriously interested in spearheading an Australian movement or attending one of the North American movements, please PM me your contact information such as an email address.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Movement"? Sounds creepy :)

However I will be in the US (or Canada) all of next year, so if this is still going on, I'd be interested in attending. I've always wanted to see your notorious "American women". ;)
 

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i would so do it, but the hard part is always "how to get there." im fifteen and can't even drive. i guess those who do it can tell me about it online or somethang.
 

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I'd definitely be down, except for the small issue of living in Australia :D good luck to all though if it goes ahead
 
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