"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero

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Cool

GG: How far out do you think you are on the camcorder? This is one of the things I wanted us to have. I think it would be a good idea to have some small, digital recording devices. I think I still have one of these, but the quality is quite poor.

How do we want to track attendies and post results?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A good majority of the DJ population hails from Canada. :)
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BINGO!!! Anybody interested in holding one in Ottawa? I know at least a FEW (5 or so) dj's are here. I'd be up for it. We can pick up a few girls and go down a few pints at a sports bar or the like. I don't do clubs. lol
 
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Guys, I created a new thread in the Wingman forum titled "Don Juan Experiment". Please post your Cities and what you'd like to see happen. Also, I suck at titlles. Can someone please suggest some names for the event?
 
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What about Australia? Nobody cares about us :(
 
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Australia is out of the question for me as the fares and flight time is too much. However, I'd be happy to share materials, ideas, and so forth with an Australian branch.

I'm sure I'll make it "down under" some day. Sadly, that could be 3-5 years down the road (assuming I am still alive).

If you're seriously interested in spearheading an Australian movement or attending one of the North American movements, please PM me your contact information such as an email address.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diplomatic_lies

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"Movement"? Sounds creepy :)

However I will be in the US (or Canada) all of next year, so if this is still going on, I'd be interested in attending. I've always wanted to see your notorious "American women". ;)
 
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i would so do it, but the hard part is always "how to get there." im fifteen and can't even drive. i guess those who do it can tell me about it online or somethang.
 
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I'd definitely be down, except for the small issue of living in Australia :D good luck to all though if it goes ahead
 
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