"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

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Originally posted by crazygecko
and here's my blogspot I created just now. Thanks for the inspiration Jackson Power, and ofcos AsianPlayboy.

http://whackybanny.blogspot.com/
crazy gecko, there is an official blog ring started for bootcamp participants. You can join too if you want. I'll post the link down below.

PeterCrouch

what actually happens in this boot camp then?
You can find a link to the DJ bootcamp on the first post of this thread. I recommend printing it out so you can have a hard copy. I will also post a link further down the page.

Centaurion

Walden finished the DJ Bootcamp. His journal is legendary.

New Guys

As of now we're scheduled to begin Friday, June 24th. If you join in, copy and paste the "list" and add your name and contact info to it. Once we actually get started we will post an official Bootcamp thread.

We have a web blog ring established.

Here is the link to the webring.

Also if you want to download the DJ Bootcamp,here is the link

Here is the "list" as it now stands:

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20

Everyone

As someone who is experienced in the Bootcamp, I'm thinking of posting a comprehsive tip thread covering week #1. I don't want to sound preachy but everyone always has a lot of questions about week 1, and I do have some suggestions. It's up to you guys. If you want me to post it, let me know.

Also, it's nice to see such a huge turnout. I've never seen so many people join in. Half of you may not actually follow through, but to those who do:

DON'T GIVE UP! IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE!! NOW LET'S MAKE THIS THE BEST SUMMER OF OUR LIVES!!!
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's up to you guys. If you want me to post it, let me know
Please do.
 

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New guys, Please read my post that is posted on this page.

Please and thank you.
:D
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward

Also, it's nice to see such a huge turnout. I've never seen so many people join in. Half of you may not actually follow through, but to those who do:

DON'T GIVE UP! IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE!! NOW LET'S MAKE THIS THE BEST SUMMER OF OUR LIVES!!!


This is the plan! I need this bad. Sure I want girls, but getting over our fears of social situations will help us out in MANY more areas of our life, like in our careers, business, etc.


This is the last straw. Ive tried and given up in the past, but this is going to be my best shot.

I'll just grab my two fellas down there and go for it.

I will suceed of die trying (hahaha)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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*puts gun to head*

Ahem!

NEW GUYS!!

Have you read my post on this very page??? NO? Okay, I'll make it easy on you!

If you want to be counted in, copy and paste the "list" and add your name to the bottom. I've included some other information about bootcamp on my previous post on this page. That means look up there ^.

Have a nice day!
:cool:
 

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1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
 

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hey, sorry...but by the way my schedule has been going lately, i don't think i'd have enough time to commit to this, so i'll have to do it some other time (although it would have been awesome to try it now with so many others).

Ever onward, since you seem to be in charge, if you could please remove me (#43) from the list?

thanks.

good luck to everyone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
48. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
 

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4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
48. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
49. thelastdj 16
 

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h2o

I'm not in charge of anything. I'm just trying to keep the whole thing organized.

Sorry that you can't join with us. I've seen your approach journal, good stuff!

I'll remove your name.

updated list:

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16

guys

How's everyone doing? Only a day and a half until we officially get started. Are you pumped? No? Well get that way because the fun is about to begin.
 
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Yeah..let the games begin!! :cheer:
 

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i want in

havent been on the board in weeks and i see this. i definately want in.

Dont have AIM but my msn is: [email protected]

Thx

(theres an underscore between dj and cowboy
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hey cowboy, welcome to Bootcamp! What did you mean you haven't been on the board in weeks? That was your first post...

Anyways, I took the liberty of adding your name to the list.

redshift

Fvck yeah! That's the spirt. I see your from michigan. I'm going to be in Ann Arbor at the end of July. I'm attending a bootcamp with Juggler. Have you ever been to one of his workshops since your in his area and all?

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16
49. [email protected]
 

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3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16
49. [email protected]
50. [email protected]
 

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Heres an NLP technique for all of you. Since we are all doing bootcamp together, picture yourself and 50 of your friends behind you for encouragement every time you approach! We are a team.

We have the power of 50 or more that are doing this. We together can break through any fear.

Afraid to approach? Look over your shoulder there are 50 of your friends telling you to get off your ass and do it!

KICK ASS MY FELLOW DJS!
 

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That's a good tip ricky! Whenever I read your posts I always feel like I'm talking to a friend.

I don't think many people are checking this thread once they've "joined in". You should repost this on my FAQ/Discussion thread.

Glad your a part of the team. Only one more day, I'm pumped!
 

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Yo just checking in, I am still on board.

If we're going to break into teams I think we should do so as soon as possible, so we can get better aquainted with out teammates. Are even doing this idea? I'm not feeling the xanga blog idea, so I'll be doing mine on this message board.

Anyone wanna be on my team?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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