"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

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Originally posted by crazygecko
and here's my blogspot I created just now. Thanks for the inspiration Jackson Power, and ofcos AsianPlayboy.

http://whackybanny.blogspot.com/
crazy gecko, there is an official blog ring started for bootcamp participants. You can join too if you want. I'll post the link down below.

PeterCrouch

what actually happens in this boot camp then?
You can find a link to the DJ bootcamp on the first post of this thread. I recommend printing it out so you can have a hard copy. I will also post a link further down the page.

Centaurion

Walden finished the DJ Bootcamp. His journal is legendary.

New Guys

As of now we're scheduled to begin Friday, June 24th. If you join in, copy and paste the "list" and add your name and contact info to it. Once we actually get started we will post an official Bootcamp thread.

We have a web blog ring established.

Here is the link to the webring.

Also if you want to download the DJ Bootcamp,here is the link

Here is the "list" as it now stands:

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20

Everyone

As someone who is experienced in the Bootcamp, I'm thinking of posting a comprehsive tip thread covering week #1. I don't want to sound preachy but everyone always has a lot of questions about week 1, and I do have some suggestions. It's up to you guys. If you want me to post it, let me know.

Also, it's nice to see such a huge turnout. I've never seen so many people join in. Half of you may not actually follow through, but to those who do:

DON'T GIVE UP! IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE!! NOW LET'S MAKE THIS THE BEST SUMMER OF OUR LIVES!!!
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's up to you guys. If you want me to post it, let me know
Please do.
 

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New guys, Please read my post that is posted on this page.

Please and thank you.
:D
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward

Also, it's nice to see such a huge turnout. I've never seen so many people join in. Half of you may not actually follow through, but to those who do:

DON'T GIVE UP! IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE!! NOW LET'S MAKE THIS THE BEST SUMMER OF OUR LIVES!!!


This is the plan! I need this bad. Sure I want girls, but getting over our fears of social situations will help us out in MANY more areas of our life, like in our careers, business, etc.


This is the last straw. Ive tried and given up in the past, but this is going to be my best shot.

I'll just grab my two fellas down there and go for it.

I will suceed of die trying (hahaha)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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*puts gun to head*

Ahem!

NEW GUYS!!

Have you read my post on this very page??? NO? Okay, I'll make it easy on you!

If you want to be counted in, copy and paste the "list" and add your name to the bottom. I've included some other information about bootcamp on my previous post on this page. That means look up there ^.

Have a nice day!
:cool:
 

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1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
 

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hey, sorry...but by the way my schedule has been going lately, i don't think i'd have enough time to commit to this, so i'll have to do it some other time (although it would have been awesome to try it now with so many others).

Ever onward, since you seem to be in charge, if you could please remove me (#43) from the list?

thanks.

good luck to everyone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
48. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
 

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3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
47.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
48. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
49. thelastdj 16
 

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h2o

I'm not in charge of anything. I'm just trying to keep the whole thing organized.

Sorry that you can't join with us. I've seen your approach journal, good stuff!

I'll remove your name.

updated list:

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16

guys

How's everyone doing? Only a day and a half until we officially get started. Are you pumped? No? Well get that way because the fun is about to begin.
 
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Yeah..let the games begin!! :cheer:
 

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i want in

havent been on the board in weeks and i see this. i definately want in.

Dont have AIM but my msn is: [email protected]

Thx

(theres an underscore between dj and cowboy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey cowboy, welcome to Bootcamp! What did you mean you haven't been on the board in weeks? That was your first post...

Anyways, I took the liberty of adding your name to the list.

redshift

Fvck yeah! That's the spirt. I see your from michigan. I'm going to be in Ann Arbor at the end of July. I'm attending a bootcamp with Juggler. Have you ever been to one of his workshops since your in his area and all?

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16
49. [email protected]
 

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4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
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6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 (Detroit ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. Lingmongjup (San Francisco soon to be UCLA) 17
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16
49. [email protected]
50. [email protected]
 

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Heres an NLP technique for all of you. Since we are all doing bootcamp together, picture yourself and 50 of your friends behind you for encouragement every time you approach! We are a team.

We have the power of 50 or more that are doing this. We together can break through any fear.

Afraid to approach? Look over your shoulder there are 50 of your friends telling you to get off your ass and do it!

KICK ASS MY FELLOW DJS!
 

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That's a good tip ricky! Whenever I read your posts I always feel like I'm talking to a friend.

I don't think many people are checking this thread once they've "joined in". You should repost this on my FAQ/Discussion thread.

Glad your a part of the team. Only one more day, I'm pumped!
 

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Yo just checking in, I am still on board.

If we're going to break into teams I think we should do so as soon as possible, so we can get better aquainted with out teammates. Are even doing this idea? I'm not feeling the xanga blog idea, so I'll be doing mine on this message board.

Anyone wanna be on my team?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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