"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

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You're in.

6 days left until we enter bootcamp. Who is ready?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP


Don't be discouraged by the size of your town. My town that I'll be in for the remainder of the summer isn't even big enough to have a Wal-Mart. There's still people here though, so small is no excuse. I do admit that I cannot count on seeing a cute girl on any given day here. As sad as that is, I've gone out for entire days and not even seen a girl that I would approach! If it really becomes an issue, though, I will just chalk it up and drive the 45 minutes to Santa Fe. I do like those latina babes :up:
yeah brotherAP you re rite, i'm actually only 25 mins away from Niagara Falls, CA, maybe i could drive up there to mack up the ladies... i couldn't do it last year cuz i didn't have a car..

Wow guys i'm so pumped for this... i finish my exams next thursday, and i'll be all ready to start the bootcamp on friday...

I hope nobody quits... and hopefully i don't quit...
 

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hey brotherAP, have you considered editing the first post and keeping it updated with who is doing the bootcamp, when it starts, etc.

then, when it starts, you can also edit in the link to each week's thread, etc.
 

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Originally posted by LegalSeduction
hey brotherAP, have you considered editing the first post and keeping it updated with who is doing the bootcamp, when it starts, etc.

then, when it starts, you can also edit in the link to each week's thread, etc.
as a past BC participant I'll be the first to tell you that u can't edit a post after 48 hrs.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow. There are a lot of people this time around. Imagine if we all posted our own bootcamp thread... we'd flood the forums! They'd have to create a new section, just for us, ha.

If there's 20 some odd people all trying to post field reports and responses, we're going to be drowning in boot camp love. I wonder how much response we can actually expect with that.

I have an idea. We could each sign up for a Xanga blogspot, and create a "DJ Bootcamp" blogring. On that blog, we could post our field reports, and people can leave comments there. We could post that we have a new field report in the official thread, and include a link. I like the thought of this because it will allow each person to have a focused response to their field reports without having 20 some odd threads or a single thread with 20 different field reports and responses.
 

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I'm in too. Those poor bastards don't know what is coming their way now!

I am glad it started yesterday I had a great day sarging with a couple of women.

Actually had a chance to go out as a group with a few of them tonight, but I am strategically using my absence with them.

This thread will get me out the fricking door to the bar. It's 10:15 I live close to alot of bars, so one shower and I'm out the door!

KICKASS GUYS!

Put a voice in the back of your head that says "DONT BE A *****!"

I think a great theme song for this is 2PAC "Changes"
It's time to make some changes guys!
 
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Ricky they bumped it back another week... it doesn't start until this coming friday. I think. Either way, It should be a good time.
 

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Too late boys I already started.

Remember keep that voice "Don't be a ***** in your head"

I'm going to write one more thread than I'm out on the town.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So is there a deadline for this? There needs to be if there isn't, or we will constantly have people saying "let me in, I'll do wht you missed in 2 days."

Also, I'm going on vaca on the 29th till the 11th, so theres 2 weeks i cant update, but I'm down nevertheless.
 

DoN_KaTRiN

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WHENS THE DEADLINE CANT WAIT TO START
 

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The xanga idea is pretty cool, I like it. Start a ring and I'll join.

Also, you Chicago area guys, let's exchange phone numbers and do some meets.

IM: volume Maxed out
e-mail: maxizzle at comcast dot net

Or PM me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ya forgot me. There you go =)
 

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Last night was a blast.

I went to a local tourist trap and for some reason I was really laid back and my sense of situational humor was locked on.

By the end I had everyone laughing and it was awesome. People were telling me I should do standup.

It was good humor too not the self deprecating kind.

Really great night.

I kind of find myself wishing I could find a bar where that attitude is in effect and there is a smaller group that is more like a party.

At the end of the night there were about 10 guys and girls around and it was a blast talking to all of em. It's like I had an audience because I don't have a social phobia of talking to new people.

That was two great nights in a row. Now today I'm going to get a killer workout at the gym, do some studying, clean up the mess in the apartment, then go out and chat with a few people if I have time left over.
 

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Hey Ricky, Glad to see your jumping on the bandwagon like I SUGGESTED in the mature man's forum. haha.

How far did you make it in bootcamp last time? I got to week 4.

Okay I don't think I can use any of the java aim links you guys posted. I will have to check out the blogs you guys are talking about but I don't know what those are either.

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3. lilice537
4. draedalusPK
5. redshiftat7000
6. SiR WiSPeRS
7. BrotherAaron212
8. Regus2k1
9. Theshanksterone
10. projekt7dsm
11. Tukzulu
12. MxMxstr
13. Jackpowent
14. cbehrsi0
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22. titoman87
23. lingmongjup
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25. social401k
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Here is the updated list. Anyone who wants to join in remember to add your name to the list by copying and pasting into your response.

How many web blogs do we have going here? I've seen 2 or 3? Which one is the official one? If you guys post there does that mean we're not posting here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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