"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

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You're in.

6 days left until we enter bootcamp. Who is ready?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP


Don't be discouraged by the size of your town. My town that I'll be in for the remainder of the summer isn't even big enough to have a Wal-Mart. There's still people here though, so small is no excuse. I do admit that I cannot count on seeing a cute girl on any given day here. As sad as that is, I've gone out for entire days and not even seen a girl that I would approach! If it really becomes an issue, though, I will just chalk it up and drive the 45 minutes to Santa Fe. I do like those latina babes :up:
yeah brotherAP you re rite, i'm actually only 25 mins away from Niagara Falls, CA, maybe i could drive up there to mack up the ladies... i couldn't do it last year cuz i didn't have a car..

Wow guys i'm so pumped for this... i finish my exams next thursday, and i'll be all ready to start the bootcamp on friday...

I hope nobody quits... and hopefully i don't quit...
 

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hey brotherAP, have you considered editing the first post and keeping it updated with who is doing the bootcamp, when it starts, etc.

then, when it starts, you can also edit in the link to each week's thread, etc.
 

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Originally posted by LegalSeduction
hey brotherAP, have you considered editing the first post and keeping it updated with who is doing the bootcamp, when it starts, etc.

then, when it starts, you can also edit in the link to each week's thread, etc.
as a past BC participant I'll be the first to tell you that u can't edit a post after 48 hrs.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wow. There are a lot of people this time around. Imagine if we all posted our own bootcamp thread... we'd flood the forums! They'd have to create a new section, just for us, ha.

If there's 20 some odd people all trying to post field reports and responses, we're going to be drowning in boot camp love. I wonder how much response we can actually expect with that.

I have an idea. We could each sign up for a Xanga blogspot, and create a "DJ Bootcamp" blogring. On that blog, we could post our field reports, and people can leave comments there. We could post that we have a new field report in the official thread, and include a link. I like the thought of this because it will allow each person to have a focused response to their field reports without having 20 some odd threads or a single thread with 20 different field reports and responses.
 

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I'm in too. Those poor bastards don't know what is coming their way now!

I am glad it started yesterday I had a great day sarging with a couple of women.

Actually had a chance to go out as a group with a few of them tonight, but I am strategically using my absence with them.

This thread will get me out the fricking door to the bar. It's 10:15 I live close to alot of bars, so one shower and I'm out the door!

KICKASS GUYS!

Put a voice in the back of your head that says "DONT BE A *****!"

I think a great theme song for this is 2PAC "Changes"
It's time to make some changes guys!
 
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Ricky they bumped it back another week... it doesn't start until this coming friday. I think. Either way, It should be a good time.
 

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Too late boys I already started.

Remember keep that voice "Don't be a ***** in your head"

I'm going to write one more thread than I'm out on the town.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So is there a deadline for this? There needs to be if there isn't, or we will constantly have people saying "let me in, I'll do wht you missed in 2 days."

Also, I'm going on vaca on the 29th till the 11th, so theres 2 weeks i cant update, but I'm down nevertheless.
 

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WHENS THE DEADLINE CANT WAIT TO START
 

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The xanga idea is pretty cool, I like it. Start a ring and I'll join.

Also, you Chicago area guys, let's exchange phone numbers and do some meets.

IM: volume Maxed out
e-mail: maxizzle at comcast dot net

Or PM me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ya forgot me. There you go =)
 

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Last night was a blast.

I went to a local tourist trap and for some reason I was really laid back and my sense of situational humor was locked on.

By the end I had everyone laughing and it was awesome. People were telling me I should do standup.

It was good humor too not the self deprecating kind.

Really great night.

I kind of find myself wishing I could find a bar where that attitude is in effect and there is a smaller group that is more like a party.

At the end of the night there were about 10 guys and girls around and it was a blast talking to all of em. It's like I had an audience because I don't have a social phobia of talking to new people.

That was two great nights in a row. Now today I'm going to get a killer workout at the gym, do some studying, clean up the mess in the apartment, then go out and chat with a few people if I have time left over.
 

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Hey Ricky, Glad to see your jumping on the bandwagon like I SUGGESTED in the mature man's forum. haha.

How far did you make it in bootcamp last time? I got to week 4.

Okay I don't think I can use any of the java aim links you guys posted. I will have to check out the blogs you guys are talking about but I don't know what those are either.

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Here is the updated list. Anyone who wants to join in remember to add your name to the list by copying and pasting into your response.

How many web blogs do we have going here? I've seen 2 or 3? Which one is the official one? If you guys post there does that mean we're not posting here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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