"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juan Boot Camp. Week #1

Dingus

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I'm getting close to done. I should be able to nearly finish this evening as I have to go to a meeting and don't know anyone there. I'll let you guys knows this evening.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So far things are looking up. I'm not completly done with the first expercise, but I'm going to also try and get it finished tonight. I'm around 40 or so hello's and it's gone pretty good. I was alittle scared at first but the challenge has broken through alot of my shell.

I was in a bar Friday night and a women was standing next to me. I didn't think about it but just turned around and said hello with a smile, we exchanged a few words and that was about it. Everyone else has been someone passing byme or someone in a places like resurant, mall etc. I'll try and write more later.. Good luck fellas...
 

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Final report week# 1

Here is my final report.

I could not get all my Hi's i only got 37. I'm kind of pissed because i promised myself that i would do this thing all the way, on the other hand, honestly i've been very busy, and the only night off i had this week was my birthday and my frineds took me out.

I will get the rest during week #2.

Now, i noticed couple of things

Eye contact.
- Most of the people won't look at you in the eye.

- The ones that do it quickly turn

- Very few people actually hold EC

Hi's
- Most of the people that answer back do it like just for being polite.

- The more confident and friendly you look, the better their reaction

- Girls look more attractive (to me) when they answer in a friendly confident way. Now if that work for the girls why wouldn't it work for guys... think about it.

I also have to work on my voice and attitude beacuse i have noticed that most of the time i don't look very confident. I think that is why i didn't get that many "good" hi's

Overall it have been a great week, i'm looking foward week 2.
 

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Final thoughts...

catch:
I have 2 theories why old people reacts better.

1. The cave attention (but no in a bad way). How much attention do you give to you grandparents? Once the get old their children and grand children pay less attention to them, so they love anybody who spend some time with them. Just go to a nursing home one day and sit down to talk to old people the will LOVE YOU.

2. My other theory i more simple. You are not trying to impress them or get their aproval and people can sense that so they react better.

Good job, but i still haven't seen your final report.



christopher360:

"I'm offering them a hello"

GREAT! I never thought about it. That makes it so much easier!
Good job men.

Still waiting the final report.



Levrone:

You will also have to work double to finish week 1 and 2 togather to catch up. Welcome.



DJLegion:

Good tip bro. I like that. I'm gonna try it with tha rest of my hi's. I see you're working hard. Final report?



Deluxe:

The fisrt 10 hi's are awful hard, but then you start to have fun. Once you start getting you confidence you will be able to spot confident people. Just keep going, it doesn't matter if you get frustrated, just keep going and don't stop. You will have a hard week ahead because you gonna have to finish week 1 while working on week 2. Keep posting and welcome.



So many ways

THAT'S MY BRO RIGHT THERE!

Good job men. I also agree with what you say. It feels good putting a smile in somebody's face.

The only one who finish on time! Keep up the good work.



Dingus:

Welcome men. Let us know how are you doing.



Foxhound:

Good to see you back my friend!!! I see all my fellas from nomoremrniceguy.com are here. I thought you were gone.
Well let us know how are you doing.

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Now, to wrap up week #1

I am very disapointed that EVERYBODY except So Many Ways failed to finish the exercises on time. It is Monday 2:22 am(c.t.) and the only final report a can see is his.

It's alright beacuse it's the first week but no more slacking (including myself). For next week all final reports have to be posted by sunday midnight the latest.

Besides that i think it has been a great week, keep up the good work.

Finish posting your result for week 1 here (except the people who started late).

Congratulation ladies. We have survived week 1 :D

C y'all
 

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Originally posted by Papi Jack

DJLegion:

Good tip bro. I like that. I'm gonna try it with tha rest of my hi's. I see you're working hard. Final report?
Hey, look at the end of page two. I mentioned I finished there and gave my last report for week one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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