"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not in the bootcamp but thanks for sticky'ing it just the same. I think its great that these guys are doing it, have such a large group and hopefully this will help keep them accountable.

I haven't ever seen a class this big start. Props to all who signed up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Screw it . Im in too .

lil background info:

Ive done bootcamps before (my own bootcamp , the rules of the game) , but im gonna do it again :D . This is getting bigger and more important , so , im IN . I dont have problems approaching girls or initiating conversation . But i just wanna do it for fun .Maybe i could help someone too .

So guys , see you in a couple weeks .

Youll see the importance of doing bootcamp in the end .

Peace.
 

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I can still try without a phone right?maybe i wont be able to get into some challenges but not having a phone never holded me back before so yeah im in:up:
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I started the bootcamp a while back, but gave up after just a few days. It's really tough to do primarily by yourself. I'm totally in for starting again, and finishing the damn thing this time.
 

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still debating on whether to do the bootcamp, i know there was a discussion on this board a month or so ago about updating the bootcamp since its over 6 years ago it was created and it has low success rate, anyone remember that?
 

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24 people... Ooh la la! Maybe three groups of 8^^

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i just found this and will read the bootcamp article but most likely will be in!

btw anyone from syd?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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im about an hour north umad. also give more info about yourself :p
 

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k well im 20 at uni. obviously not that good at chicks but ive been reading ****loads and ive just started actually going out and talking to strangers etc.

but reading the bootcamp thing and i dont think i need to do it(ie i dont need to talk to randoms and just say hi, i can go right into convo) and i got plenty of material. though it would be good motivation
 

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Hi there !

Well, I'm a 26 shy fit short not bad looking guy.
I'm from France and I actually have already begun this amazing B/C (Week 1 Day 3).
As I'm slow :)p) I'd like to make this boot camp with you guys !
I'm a shy guy for everything about girls I'd like to meet but i'm social if I'm in a "friend of mine's" party (even if there are stranger)
I know that's kinda weird.
Actually I've got a lot of approach anxiety and i hope this b/c will help me to move my fu**ing as*.

By the way my "natural gaming style" is ****y & funny. I use a lot of irony and sarcasam.

Well I think it's enough :D

Cya guys.
 

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why dont we make the boot camp something like an event like once a year?like every year in perhaps april or something there would be a BC like some kind of olimpic games
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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@uMad: So are u joining or not? You said you would like to do it but in the same sentence that you don't need it...:confused:

@Daddy The Pimp: We are using the old BC as it is in the bible. Still I am going to copy the exercises for your convenience ;)

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The hell with it! I'm in! The exams are coming but I can't resist the temptation.

How'bout if every week, besides the normal bootcamp, we'll set some goals about grooming, doing exercises/sports/whatever gets your blood pumping, doing some chores etc.?
We'll set one or two goals from every category each week until doing these necessary things become a habit.

Being a DJ doesn't only mean being good with girls, you know?
One may say that these things I'm talking about should be our own business, but let me tell you that motivation fades away after one or two weeks of discipline if there is only you who knows about the nice progress. :D

Let me know if it's a good idea and I'll try to collaborate with the organizer, Al Moh., and get down to it.
 

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ya im in, again lets not let me fall off in the first week, land a LTR with a 5 again, **** the **** out of her for 3 years break up, pick a 7 up at a gas station and accidently knock her up in 3 months, alright
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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