"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dominance game and this woman...strange situation

BackInTheGame78

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I met a 26 year old very hot woman on OLD who I believe is probably f'd up in the head, but honestly what hot chicks aren't these days...

Anyway she was attracted to me because she said I look "dominant" but wasn't sure I'd be able to give her what she needed...

She said she wants a guy who controls her whole life..what she eats, what she wears, when she goes places, etc...and obviously dominance in the bedroom as well...

So I've been doing pretty well by directing her to do things...giving me her number, any challenges are met with a stern scolding and when she does what she is supposed I tell her she is a good girl and good girls do as they are told...

Now I'm all for dominance but this is a little further then I've ever gone...I'm interested in getting this chick out and banging her, but I'd like to get opinions from others who have dealt with similar women. What are they looking for? Security, safety, a father/authority figure?

Again I don't think I could go past banging her a few times but in the interest of hitting it, what's the best play?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GT40

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Dominate her what are you waiting for ?
Treat her well and respectful as a woman. But have her wear revealing clothing in public. Platform heels. Sexy arm candy.
Do devious things with her in bed.
This sounds like fun
 

El Payaso

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Sounds like a bunny boiler to me. Think with your upper head not your lower head.
 

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I read this and there was alarm bells flashing in my head from the first sentence

Very hot &” O.L.D “ should rarely be used in the same sentence

Secondly has it occurred to you that she wants to be “controlled” simply because she wants to rebel ?

With all due respect this chick sounds like SERIOUS trouble I would leave her well alone
 

Killakittie

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She sounds just like this red headed spinner I've had at my beck and call the previous 4 years. She is vocal about writing a contract to be my slave. Wants to be controlled, led, yelled at, whipped, bruised, and degraded. I don't even call her by her name, just her pet name. She's never given me issues but she's so passive and submissive she has no desire to challenge me on anything.

I would be careful initially until your sure she's not going to bring drama into your life. Then have fun. I met this girl when she was 18 she's 22 now and stuck on me. It's awesome!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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either she's hardcore into S&M or she's hardcore insane, tread carefully, don't get too invested, always have a backup plan/way out but have fun
 
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